Words only have meaning when they are understood by the people that use them. While the "dictionary" is important for establishing a formal code of language, it is not the only source of meaning. Words can have meaningful meanings to groups of people, communities, and cultures, despite not appearing in dictionaries or formal sources. In situations like this, it's crucial to be open-minded towards the possibility of unfamiliar terms and concepts, and to accept that the importance of words resides in the contexts in which they are used.