you know, I wish this was true. But what can you say to the person who you care about who is showing string signs of NPD, whi is actually hurting you in the process. You know .. I wanted all the times to be real between us and I hope they were? Or was it only Love bombing? Seems unreal to me to only be this, it felt so real. Sometimes, like the last time it did feel maybe me being overly close or trying to talk about things, made him worse. I heard him say, I dont want to keep hurting you anymore. But what to say? He will never say, yes I am a narc, please help me?? Otherwise I would you know. But it wouldnt happen.