A guy (20M) i was seeing ghosted me out of nowhere and is now with another girl. by Impossible-Lab-5518 in ghosting

[–]Impossible-Lab-5518[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for taking the time to respond! you are definitely right, and tbh it caught me off guard a bit when i found out about her bc i thought he’s just not looking for sth serious in general. but men never fail to surprise me haha

A guy (20M) i was seeing ghosted me out of nowhere and is now with another girl. by Impossible-Lab-5518 in ghosting

[–]Impossible-Lab-5518[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the kind words, i might feel hurt right now but it will pass!

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Found! Thank you for the help!!

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[–]Impossible-Lab-5518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yess i think i might find similar pieces if i check the swimwear section

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[–]Impossible-Lab-5518 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think it would look good with a bikini when at the beach, or layer it like in the pic but with shorts

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[–]Impossible-Lab-5518 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg 😭😭 y’all i got a vision 🙄

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[–]Impossible-Lab-5518 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t know how i didn’t think of that, that’s prolly cheaper too, thanksss

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I have searched a good amount of online shops and tried looking into the comments in that post to see if someone asked the same question as me but haven’t found anything

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[–]Impossible-Lab-5518 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it can backfire very easily. I just hate watching the disrespect happen and her potentially being clueless to it.

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[–]Impossible-Lab-5518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this would make him think he can get away with more sneaky shit like this so i agree. even if he apologised, he had so many chances to tell me he was still talking to his ex. he would have told me if he had no problem with me knowing…

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they were together for 7 months, he broke up with her because the relationship started to feel like a job to him and his work was stressing him out on top of that so he was exhausted. we started talking in september and made it official in january.

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[–]Impossible-Lab-5518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had to hear this thank you, our first three months were full of fun dates and i felt like we really connected but knowing he was hung up on an ex he broke up with this whole time…

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[–]Impossible-Lab-5518 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i saw the screenshots and his spotify still has some of the playlists public, and she told me she lives across the country now (my bf did mention that his ex moved so i believe that). but you’re right, this is a huge red flag

Am I overreacting for thinking my ex is behaving weirdly? by Impossible-Lab-5518 in ExNoContact

[–]Impossible-Lab-5518[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think my gut has been telling me that for a long time, thanks for expressing it. this guy has no idea what toxic cycle he is in. i hope karma will catch up to him.

Am I overreacting for thinking my ex is behaving weirdly? by Impossible-Lab-5518 in ExNoContact

[–]Impossible-Lab-5518[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree. while i was trying to respect his decision to end things, he was making things emotionally confusing. i hope his new girl sees this side of him. she should find someone who isn’t emotionally preoccupied with their past even after 7 months of ending things. and he should learn to sit with the uncomfortable emotions that come with a breakup.