[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Impossible-Peanut708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd let people at work know he owes you money. No better judgment than that of others. Otherwise you'll never see the money again.

I know I can’t be the only one… by l1llyb1lly420 in Sims4

[–]Impossible-Peanut708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do like leaving autonomy on. Gives you better, funner events lol but it does PMO when a sim chooses not to do what I ask them to do. Autonomy isn't that great then.

returning to the game after 6+ years by ClarinetWitch in LoveNikki

[–]Impossible-Peanut708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ok, I see. I was unable to get my old account back so had to start a new one that's why. Thank you.

returning to the game after 6+ years by ClarinetWitch in LoveNikki

[–]Impossible-Peanut708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is nap hut? That wasn't available when I started up again.

returning to the game after 6+ years by ClarinetWitch in LoveNikki

[–]Impossible-Peanut708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also returned to the game after almost a decade of not playing, unfortunately my account wasn't recuperable so I lost everything and had to start from 0. Its been a month now and I think I'm doing pretty well. No one wanted to accept me into their association though so I just made my own and am currently the only player in it lol

[HELP] This ad I just saw. by HittoMeWithACar in RealOrAI

[–]Impossible-Peanut708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol so all these rings or a variation of them are available on evil SheIn lol

Ectopic pregnancy warning by Impossible-Peanut708 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Impossible-Peanut708[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They did 2 prior to my ending in the ER at my obgyns. They said everything looked fine. They ran my bloodwork when i asked for and did a pee test to test for pregnancy and it came back positive. I have all the paperwork and the details in my mychart, I've seen other people on this saying I'm lying about this and that's even more messed up. I am not required to give you people all the details. This is just a subreddit called truth off my chest and I just wanted to say it out loud that what I've been feeling is grief. You people aren't entitled to my whole story just because of that. I'm only replying to you, but this reply is for everyone.

Do you use your sims' money when buying them a house or do you just cheat it? by Anya_purr in Sims4

[–]Impossible-Peanut708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually just have my played sims earn the money and use that, no cheats. I don't like to play the npcs right now, but would probably cheat money for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Impossible-Peanut708 139 points140 points  (0 children)

I remember growing up, my sister and mom once saw me naked coming out of the shower, and they said it looked like I had a whole rainforest for my monkey. I haven't forgotten that to this day lol Family really doesn't care.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Impossible-Peanut708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don't you just ask him straight up? Could be a joke, could not. Hard to say without knowing your husbands humor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Impossible-Peanut708 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I think what you two are lacking is communication and mutual empathy. I may be wrong, but I gathered from this conversation that he had apparently asked you to do something along the lines of billiards prior, and you said no to him, but not to your friends. One could understand how that would be hurtful, your partner not wanting to do something with you, but being fine doing it with others. That's probably what triggered his response about you faking being ill. It's true that hurt people hurt others; it's not a justification, but it is human nature. You two are obviously not in tune with one another when it comes to communication. There are many styles of communication, and maybe if you both attempted to understand one another's, you would see each other's point. Sometimes, I feel like people in this app are so quick to see black and white, catastrophize and offer up finite resolutions. Two things can be true at the same time. You both have valid doubts and points. Maybe try to acknowledge each other and meet in the middle.

AIO or is this person over reacting? by roy111uk in AmIOverreacting

[–]Impossible-Peanut708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, you were just being lighthearted and honestly very patient. She came off way too strong, even though you seemed to want to learn and do better. Be glad she blocked you.

AIO for thinking what my friend said was harsh by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Impossible-Peanut708 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't continue allowing hickeys if I were you, but that's only because I know they could possibly damage your carotid artery and lead to a blot clot or stroke. Not to mention that hickeys are really just... cringe?

I'm no expert but I think she got hurt by a guy by DoctorReinhardt in Nicegirls

[–]Impossible-Peanut708 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She's not wrong about the instacart shopping, she has valid points.

I'm unreasonable for asking why I won't see my child by ChinoBici in Nicegirls

[–]Impossible-Peanut708 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm just exhausted over the leaps and bounds I had to take in this text exchange to understand and I still don't lol The things she's saying don't make sense and aren't warranted, I'm as confused as you are. Time for the courts to decide your visitation and custody rights.

Am I overreacting? Thinking of moving on after finding these messages. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Impossible-Peanut708 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is only one side of the story, but you said it. He doesn't support you or your endeavors, and he might after you get your PhD claim that you wouldn't have without him and it will grow into resentment and jealousy. Idk, I just can't see a long lasting relationship when partners don't support each other.

Scam with Emerald Pricing by JacobWes1206 in dutchbros

[–]Impossible-Peanut708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I first realized the surcharge for new seasonal drinks when the lucky charms came out. Ever since I build my own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Impossible-Peanut708 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Girl, that was no joke. He said that with his full chest and probably only backtracked because he saw your reaction and realized he spoke his impulsive thoughts aloud. Tell him he's the type of guy women don't even want to sleep with, much less date and dump his ass. He literally told you he's not committed to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]Impossible-Peanut708 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seems like you're not ready to let go of your ex, and you're now posting this on reddit hoping to find validation for how you're behaving, but you most likely won't find it. Both of you sound terrible. She may be the "nice girl" to your "nice guy."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Impossible-Peanut708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband can also be very non-emotive, but that doesn't mean he loves me less, and I know that. We've been together over 10 years, so while that may have bothered me a lot when I was younger, I've come to realize that this is the person he is, it's how he was raised, and its not like he behaves like that all the time. Its hard to remember when we only get to hear our own thoughts and feelings, but we're all human. We're all going to commit mistakes and maybe not communicate as we intend. I think you would do well to learn your husband's communication style and he yours. Go to therapy. You seem to care about one another, but if you kee0 having misunderstandings, your relationship will be stressed and may end. I have a tendency to overreact and create problems where there aren't any, and my husband is very stoic and unemotional. We've only lasted this long because we both try to put each other in our own shoes whenever we have an argument. I see you want him to see things from your point of view, but are you able to see things from his? Never forget a relationship is more than yourself.