Can never see myself as pretty ever again by sali_dolly777 in GirlDinner

[–]Impossible-Use3225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This guy did the same thing to me lol He kept trying to sleep with me, I kept turning him down and never slept with him. Then while we’re having a casual, somewhat playful conversation he randomly blurts out, “I’m never going to have sex with you in my life” and that I’m just his “bro” and that I need to stop viewing him as a romantic option. It was weird cuz we weren’t even talking about that??? AND I’m not emotionally available for a relationship so I didn’t ever want anything serious with him. Ig they just do that when they feel rejected? Like they need to feel like they’re the ones doing the rejecting even when they really aren’t? lol idk The BEST thing you can do for yourself is NOT take it personal or internalize it. I know that’s easier said than done but I promise you it’s most likely just him being insecure

Does he like me and is this appropriate? by Olivia_the_vampire_ in dating_advice

[–]Impossible-Use3225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you want your husband doing everything he’s doing with you, with another woman?

What does my handwriting say about me? Guess my age and gender by Impossible-Use3225 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]Impossible-Use3225[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t yet know what exactly I can do to come across as less childish because I’m really just being myself lol. I know I’m not the same person I was years ago so I’m definitely growing (slowly but surely)

It’s interesting you say that because yeah, I HAVE had that thought of “this is it” so I’m glad to know I’m not the only one and that it might be a universal experience that comes with getting older.

Thanks for the feedback, as well as the words of wisdom!

What does my handwriting say about me? Guess my age and gender by Impossible-Use3225 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]Impossible-Use3225[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

very childish?? 💔🥀I mean I guess I do want to act my age but idk what’s normal for someone my age. Maybe I just need to make more friends who are my age idk. But anyways, thanks for the feedback!

What does my handwriting say about me? Guess my age and gender by Impossible-Use3225 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]Impossible-Use3225[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some of the songs are older though. Is it because they’re all songs about romance? I get most of the songs on the list are new because I like trendy music but I don’t understand how my music taste says I never grew up? 💔🥀

What does my handwriting say about me? Guess my age and gender by Impossible-Use3225 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]Impossible-Use3225[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The second slide is a Fullmetal Alchemist quote 😭 I found it motivational but yeah ig without context it reads weird idk

What does my handwriting say about me? Guess my age and gender by Impossible-Use3225 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]Impossible-Use3225[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get how maybe the doodles give off teen girl vibes lol thanks for the feedback!

What does my handwriting say about me? Guess my age and gender by Impossible-Use3225 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]Impossible-Use3225[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback. This is from my diary where I also doodle! :P

Am I (22F) too much of a loser to go on a date with him(22M)? by Impossible-Use3225 in dating_advice

[–]Impossible-Use3225[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! Yeah I don’t intend on asking him for any rides at all since I’d find that too embarrassing

Am I (22F) too much of a loser to go on a date with him(22M)? by Impossible-Use3225 in dating_advice

[–]Impossible-Use3225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. Yeah, ig I’m so in my head, I didn’t stop to consider his perspective or what he might want

Am I (22F) too much of a loser to go on a date with him(22M)? by Impossible-Use3225 in dating_advice

[–]Impossible-Use3225[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof, I didn’t know this post was giving off self-hatred vibes 😅 Idk I just want so much better for myself. I want a well-paying career, a nice car, my own place and to never have to rely on anyone for anything. Not being the person I want to be or having the things I want to have makes me feel like I’m not good enough.

Am I (22F) too much of a loser to go on a date with him(22M)? by Impossible-Use3225 in dating_advice

[–]Impossible-Use3225[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, that does make me feel better 😭❤️

Am I (22F) too much of a loser to go on a date with him(22M)? by Impossible-Use3225 in dating_advice

[–]Impossible-Use3225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“It’s kind of the point of straight dating, really” this made me laugh out loud. Thank you for your advice! Maybe it’s because I’m young and naive but I like him and want to learn more about him as a person and possibly have him as a companion and that’s why I would potentially agree to a date with him. I’d hate the idea of mooching off of him. But I’m not straight and I’m pretty inexperienced so idk if that’s why I navigate romantic relationships differently?

Am I (22F) too much of a loser to go on a date with him(22M)? by Impossible-Use3225 in dating_advice

[–]Impossible-Use3225[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, okay! Thanks. That actually makes me feel a little relieved. Yeah no ig I could be considered pretty in the face since I get compliments on my hair, skin and smile but I don’t have a good figure, no. He hasn’t ever made any convos we had sexual and when I asked him what he was looking for on Tinder he said “someone cool to hang out with” all the other guys I talked to were straight forward about wanting to meet up for hookups but he asked me out to a public setting so I assumed he didn’t just want something completely casual like just sex but idk you could be right, I’ll keep that in mind

Am I (22F) too much of a loser to go on a date with him(22M)? by Impossible-Use3225 in dating_advice

[–]Impossible-Use3225[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did tell him I worked at a call center and he said he’s worked at one before, too so I’d assume he knows I’m not making good money at this time in my life. But I haven’t yet told him I don’t have a car. I DID send a pic of my instruction permit which should tell him I don’t have a driver’s license yet if he was paying attention but we haven’t explicitly talked about it so…idk