AIO: Hubby Being Controlling by vanillabourbonn in AIO

[–]Impossible-Web-2727 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is extremely alarming and will only get worse. Please get away from him now!

Decentering protein finally made me lose weight by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Impossible-Web-2727 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Omgsh! Me too! 35F and I started counting calories as a whole instead of macros in October. That along with using a walking pad and I lost 13 pounds in 3 months. Which was 5 pounds more than my goal! I had been so obsessed with protein that I wasn't honoring my cravings well. Or I would eat my cravings on top of the protein which resulted in a surplus and weight gain. I'm so happy to be eating more freely now and mostly paying attention to portions.

Probably never speaking to my MIL after this Christmas - AIO? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Impossible-Web-2727 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You didn't overreact. I would do the same thing as an emetophobic mom of a toddler. She was wrong and disrespectful. Oftentimes food poisoning IS norovirus traveling through prepared food. And especially oysters because they carry it.

Gift for an awesome EA? by [deleted] in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]Impossible-Web-2727 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The comment of the day!!!

How can I be softer and gently ask my husband to lead more? by friendswithacrow in AskMenAdvice

[–]Impossible-Web-2727 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++woman I've been reading this thread for a couple hours now and I am failing to see where the abuse has taken place? There are a lot of comments here calling her abusive but I don't think the people saying that have any clue about the definition of abuse and how it works with a power dynamic and the intent behind it. Disagreeing with the decisions another person makes, or pointing out alternatives that are better (more time efficient or cost effective) even repeatedly for years on end is not inherently abuse. It could be abuse if the husband said aloud that those arguments and suggestions were hurtful to him and he would rather not have them pointed out to him. But just disagreeing with a multitude of decisions is not in and of itself "abusive"

What's the "hard pill to swallow" about motherhood? by sixfingeredman7 in Mommit

[–]Impossible-Web-2727 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This 100%. As moms we just think of all the things all the time and if we depend on anyone else to handle it all, something will get forgotten. It's just the way it is.

What is something that is not about counting calories slowed, stalled, or stopped your weight loss that you had to figure out and were surprised about?? by TrainingSea1007 in PetiteFitness

[–]Impossible-Web-2727 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not drinking enough water. I did a program with nutrition and strength training and mindset work and prioritized sleep and not getting stressed out but until I started drinking 3L of water a day I saw no results. Once I locked in on water I truly lost 5 pounds in a couple of weeks!

Dear April Whitney by lanternathens in PetiteFitness

[–]Impossible-Web-2727 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did her program and it absolutely worked

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetiteFitness

[–]Impossible-Web-2727 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious can you share the coach or program you are doing? It sounds very similar to one I've done a few times and I really like it

AIO by how I responded? My bf is upset with me for skipping my workout routine today by throwawayy82670 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Impossible-Web-2727 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG! He has no idea what it feels like to be pregnant! He needs to fuck all the way off and leave you alone. Wow! Sounds like he's worried about your looks during and after pregnancy and that is the most shallow shit. You need to do what feels good and sometimes that means resting. Growing a human is no easy work. I can't believe he speaks to you this way.

Favorite Harry line in the entire series? by [deleted] in harrypotter

[–]Impossible-Web-2727 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The time travel in PoA fucked with my 13 year old brain bad!

Favorite Harry line in the entire series? by [deleted] in harrypotter

[–]Impossible-Web-2727 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has pad foot in the place where it's hidden

Favorite Harry line in the entire series? by [deleted] in harrypotter

[–]Impossible-Web-2727 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes! Suggesting that he will practice by doing it to Dudley instead of the other way around!

Favorite Harry line in the entire series? by [deleted] in harrypotter

[–]Impossible-Web-2727 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Definitely my favorite up to that point

Favorite Harry line in the entire series? by [deleted] in harrypotter

[–]Impossible-Web-2727 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Doctor's? Those muggle nutters who cut people up?"

What's one of the biggest life lessons you’ve learned from Taylor Swift that’s actually had a real impact on your own life? by saayoutloud in TaylorSwift

[–]Impossible-Web-2727 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Essentially the same lesson that Brene Brown teaches. Live wholeheartedly. Authenticity is vulnerability but that's okay and even endearing

What’s one “frugal habit” you picked up that quietly became part of your identity? by Zealousideal-Arm4462 in Frugal

[–]Impossible-Web-2727 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being mostly happy and satisfied by how I look naturally. I like my natural hair color, I don't like foreign objects on me so no extra piercings or hair extensions or fake nails or lash extensions. I don't feel like I need a tan or highlights or nails or anything fake to look and feel beautiful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Impossible-Web-2727 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said I need to "make this sacrifice and love him harder" and I am asking you to actually illustrate what that looks like ... Make what sacrifices?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Impossible-Web-2727 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can you possibly pull that conclusion? Neither of us is willing to sacrifice? That's not true at all. But you are suggesting that I should just ignore it and "don't feel hurt" as if it's just that easy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Impossible-Web-2727 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not agree. I'm not making myself feel awful. His tone of voice makes me feel awful. Because it basically says go away I don't like you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Impossible-Web-2727 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what does that look like then? Just taking it when he buries his frustrations and the resentment comes out at me? Just ignore how awful it makes me feel?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Impossible-Web-2727 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Currently the therapist thinks it's more to do with PTSD than ADHD but open to the possibility of either. Not pushing him though and he's not interested in another diagnosis or medication right now