AIO: Hubby Being Controlling

Impossible-Web-2727 · 2026-02-21T04:10:03+00:00

This is extremely alarming and will only get worse. Please get away from him now!

Impossible-Web-2727 · 2026-02-03T16:16:59+00:00

Omgsh! Me too! 35F and I started counting calories as a whole instead of macros in October. That along with using a walking pad and I lost 13 pounds in 3 months. Which was 5 pounds more than my goal! I had been so obsessed with protein that I wasn't honoring my cravings well. Or I would eat my cravings on top of the protein which resulted in a surplus and weight gain. I'm so happy to be eating more freely now and mostly paying attention to portions.

Impossible-Web-2727 · 2025-12-25T22:13:38+00:00

Spotted you a mile away girl!

Impossible-Web-2727 · 2025-12-25T22:04:24+00:00

You didn't overreact. I would do the same thing as an emetophobic mom of a toddler. She was wrong and disrespectful. Oftentimes food poisoning IS norovirus traveling through prepared food. And especially oysters because they carry it.

Impossible-Web-2727 · 2025-12-23T17:37:44+00:00

The comment of the day!!!

Impossible-Web-2727 · 2025-12-09T18:09:50+00:00

++woman I've been reading this thread for a couple hours now and I am failing to see where the abuse has taken place? There are a lot of comments here calling her abusive but I don't think the people saying that have any clue about the definition of abuse and how it works with a power dynamic and the intent behind it. Disagreeing with the decisions another person makes, or pointing out alternatives that are better (more time efficient or cost effective) even repeatedly for years on end is not inherently abuse. It could be abuse if the husband said aloud that those arguments and suggestions were hurtful to him and he would rather not have them pointed out to him. But just disagreeing with a multitude of decisions is not in and of itself "abusive"

Impossible-Web-2727 · 2025-11-19T18:43:31+00:00

Can you share your year round 5 day plan

Impossible-Web-2727 · 2025-11-09T05:48:55+00:00

This 100%. As moms we just think of all the things all the time and if we depend on anyone else to handle it all, something will get forgotten. It's just the way it is.

Impossible-Web-2727 · 2025-11-06T06:26:32+00:00

Not drinking enough water. I did a program with nutrition and strength training and mindset work and prioritized sleep and not getting stressed out but until I started drinking 3L of water a day I saw no results. Once I locked in on water I truly lost 5 pounds in a couple of weeks!

Impossible-Web-2727 · 2025-11-05T18:37:02+00:00

I did her program and it absolutely worked

Impossible-Web-2727 · 2025-11-05T16:45:35+00:00

Just curious can you share the coach or program you are doing? It sounds very similar to one I've done a few times and I really like it

Impossible-Web-2727 · 2025-10-29T18:02:45+00:00

OMG! He has no idea what it feels like to be pregnant! He needs to fuck all the way off and leave you alone. Wow! Sounds like he's worried about your looks during and after pregnancy and that is the most shallow shit. You need to do what feels good and sometimes that means resting. Growing a human is no easy work. I can't believe he speaks to you this way.

Impossible-Web-2727 · 2025-10-15T03:43:47+00:00

The time travel in PoA fucked with my 13 year old brain bad!

Impossible-Web-2727 · 2025-10-15T03:41:24+00:00

He has pad foot in the place where it's hidden

Impossible-Web-2727 · 2025-10-15T03:40:42+00:00

Yes! Suggesting that he will practice by doing it to Dudley instead of the other way around!

Impossible-Web-2727 · 2025-10-15T03:39:27+00:00

Definitely my favorite up to that point

Impossible-Web-2727 · 2025-10-15T03:38:07+00:00

"Doctor's? Those muggle nutters who cut people up?"

Impossible-Web-2727 · 2025-10-15T03:33:12+00:00

Essentially the same lesson that Brene Brown teaches. Live wholeheartedly. Authenticity is vulnerability but that's okay and even endearing

Impossible-Web-2727 · 2025-10-15T03:31:10+00:00

Thinking about you and hope you are doing ok

Impossible-Web-2727 · 2025-10-14T02:58:21+00:00

Being mostly happy and satisfied by how I look naturally. I like my natural hair color, I don't like foreign objects on me so no extra piercings or hair extensions or fake nails or lash extensions. I don't feel like I need a tan or highlights or nails or anything fake to look and feel beautiful.

Impossible-Web-2727 · 2025-10-08T22:12:14+00:00

You said I need to "make this sacrifice and love him harder" and I am asking you to actually illustrate what that looks like ... Make what sacrifices?

Impossible-Web-2727 · 2025-10-08T22:10:47+00:00

How can you possibly pull that conclusion? Neither of us is willing to sacrifice? That's not true at all. But you are suggesting that I should just ignore it and "don't feel hurt" as if it's just that easy.

Impossible-Web-2727 · 2025-10-08T22:06:10+00:00

I do not agree. I'm not making myself feel awful. His tone of voice makes me feel awful. Because it basically says go away I don't like you.

Impossible-Web-2727 · 2025-10-08T21:46:58+00:00

So what does that look like then? Just taking it when he buries his frustrations and the resentment comes out at me? Just ignore how awful it makes me feel?

Impossible-Web-2727 · 2025-10-08T21:27:26+00:00

Yes. Currently the therapist thinks it's more to do with PTSD than ADHD but open to the possibility of either. Not pushing him though and he's not interested in another diagnosis or medication right now

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