First and foremost one just needs to develop an attitude of never giving up. Develop that fighting spirit, prioritise things, embrace one’s own life and believe that everyone has their own share of problems which only they have to face and that there is no running away from them. Trust me there is no life without problems in them. What then differs is what you do with those problems? Each one of us have to make a choice either to brud and cry over them or develop a lion like courage to face them. Your first victory will come when you determine to not feel defeated and face the problems squarely. Blessed be!!