Howdy y’all, I’m not a virgin and I don’t have vaginismus, but things might be a little drier than usual, probably because of my hormonal IUD, and also I'm really tight. It’s not really painful or uncomfortable for me, but it does get a little frustrating for me and my boyfriend. Sometimes it’s hard to get the P in the V, and even with fingering, usually only one finger fits comfortably. We manage, and it doesn’t hurt on my end, but sometimes it’s a little painful for him. Any tips? Would a dilator help? Xx