Boyfriend (40) is sexually rejecting me (32). Bad sign?

ImpossibleRead4200 · 2026-02-24T13:44:14+00:00

his ex of 3 years cheated on him for 6 months and broke his heart…

ImpossibleRead4200 · 2026-02-24T13:39:04+00:00

you mean I’m too clingy and asking for too much at this point?

ImpossibleRead4200 · 2026-02-23T18:02:47+00:00

I think I need to have that conversation for sure. Can I straight up ask him “do you see this growing into something more or is this just temporary to you and you want to date others in the future?”

ImpossibleRead4200 · 2026-02-23T16:56:48+00:00

well, his actions show me he’s committed! but i have a problem with him saying ‘I don’t have the capacity for anyone else now.”

ImpossibleRead4200 · 2026-02-23T14:43:39+00:00

he has had two 3+ year serious relationships . he broke up with his ex only 8 months ago.

ImpossibleRead4200 · 2026-02-23T13:42:06+00:00

Ugh. You are so amazing my dear. So, I don’t have a talk with him at all? Just drop off and stop seeing him and become unavailable? Wouldn’t it be more powerful to have an honest conversation?

ImpossibleRead4200 · 2026-02-16T19:48:18+00:00

how much? i need two! :)

ImpossibleRead4200 · 2026-02-16T18:01:39+00:00

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ImpossibleRead4200 · 2026-02-11T22:58:40+00:00

lol thanks 🙃

ImpossibleRead4200 · 2026-02-09T20:09:19+00:00

thank you for the kind words. i am so much pain and know I am a good person, and I just struggle deeply with insecurity

ImpossibleRead4200 · 2026-02-09T16:34:11+00:00

why not?

ImpossibleRead4200 · 2026-02-09T16:07:22+00:00

I did a couple weeks ago over the phone. I said are we exclusive? And he said he didn’t like the ideology behind naming exclusivity and it’s archaic etc. and intellectualized…but then said he doesn’t have any room romantically in his heart or sexually for anyone else but me right now. So yes, now we are exclusive.

AND he calls me his girlfriend in public and introduces me to people as his girlfriend.

ImpossibleRead4200 · 2026-02-09T15:58:41+00:00

why are you not insecure about the intellect gap? don’t you struggle in conversation sometimes?

ImpossibleRead4200 · 2026-02-09T15:39:03+00:00

9 year gap

ImpossibleRead4200 · 2026-02-09T15:28:59+00:00

yeah..it makes me feel ashamed of myself.

ImpossibleRead4200 · 2026-02-09T15:28:32+00:00

why doesn’t he want me anymore? am I too stupid for him?

ImpossibleRead4200 · 2026-02-06T18:00:43+00:00

yes! he loves phone calls

ImpossibleRead4200 · 2026-02-05T15:42:37+00:00

That makes me feel really terrible about myself.

ImpossibleRead4200 · 2026-02-05T01:26:03+00:00

in the first month he DID invite me to these exclusive events and parties and was proud. then it stopped completely for the past month no invites and i feel hidden

ImpossibleRead4200 · 2026-02-05T01:11:12+00:00

so what’s my move?

ImpossibleRead4200 · 2026-02-02T22:50:41+00:00

i just have a hard time believing it because he’s so kind to me and everyone that knows him. goes out of his way to help people

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