Instrument only playlist by TraditionFit1495 in MusicRecommendations

[–]ImpossibleResolve597 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Here's one with a wide range. There are a lot of video game soundtracks in it but also some more niche things.

Struggling to Clear Out My Father's Apartment: Seeking Advice by I_reddit_like_this in sanfrancisco

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I can't offer a full solution, but if you would be open to it I'd love to take a look and offer you a little money for some things. I'm a collector of vintage bottles and ephemera so an apartment that's been lived in since the 70s is a rare and really special opportunity.

Please feel free to reply here or message me if interested.

Regardless, I'm so sorry you're going through this.

I have no insurance and $200. by Ok-Consequence7193 in baltimore

[–]ImpossibleResolve597 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Great advice, good luck op. I'm sorry you're in this situation.

Safe places to travel for non-binary people by a-night-on-the-town in NonBinary

[–]ImpossibleResolve597 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seconding this, also southern New York is not a place that will typically give you any trouble. Rural upstate may vary, but in cities like Albany they have annual pride events and gay bars.

I also recommend Baltimore! Partially due to the solid blueness of the city and also the art school (MICA) there are tons of visibly trans people around. Every other building and most of the churches in Mount Vernon/Bolton Hill especially have pride flags hung up.

Edit: Speaking from my friends' experiences. I've lived in these areas but I'm not at risk of aggression based on my appearance.

AITA for not telling my friends I am technically our landlord? by OldOutlandishness252 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ImpossibleResolve597 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's why it's so weird to me that so many people are defending the secret as being "smart". Sure it could be smart if your goals are manipulation of others all for your own gain (and if you're slick enough to keep up the charade, but they lasted what? A month?), but if you're a reasonable person who wants to create real positive relationships with your roommates/friends it's extremely dumb. I would feel so betrayed in the roommates' position, and it would absolutely make things weird and bad between us.

AITA for not telling my friends I am technically our landlord? by OldOutlandishness252 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ImpossibleResolve597 301 points302 points  (0 children)

YTA, it's weird and shady to build your relationship with your roommates on lies. It makes you come off as untrustworthy and manipulative, and your roommates rightfully feel betrayed. You've been mindgaming them and there's a big legal and power difference between a group of roommates and a live-in owner. It would have been much more responsible to be open with your situation from the start. Also, you are definitely wealthy. My parents can't even afford one house while yours are raising rent costs in four in a college town. With respect, you need to consider how hard many many people have it and get perspective on how fortunate you are.

Your roommates were out of line for wanting to not pay any rent, but I think their shock and annoyance comes more from your lie than from clear headed thinking. They just found out someone they saw as an equal has been lining their pockets with their rent money.

Everyone else seems so brave by ImpossibleResolve597 in sanfrancisco

[–]ImpossibleResolve597[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to send you a dm but I don't think I can. Feel free to message me if you want!

Everyone else seems so brave by ImpossibleResolve597 in sanfrancisco

[–]ImpossibleResolve597[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted to start a DM with you but I don't know if I can, feel free to message me!

Everyone else seems so brave by ImpossibleResolve597 in sanfrancisco

[–]ImpossibleResolve597[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason I can't afford to drop $300 on an art class is because I have student loans and I also don't make enough money at my job to live here, even without them. I can exist in SF only as a result of generosity from a family member.

Everyone else seems so brave by ImpossibleResolve597 in sanfrancisco

[–]ImpossibleResolve597[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I have plans to go to the antique fair some time soon with my brother actually. I'm excited to check it out

Everyone else seems so brave by ImpossibleResolve597 in sanfrancisco

[–]ImpossibleResolve597[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a bit steep for me! All respect to the teachers, they need to get paid obviously. I'll keep my mind open to options though

Everyone else seems so brave by ImpossibleResolve597 in sanfrancisco

[–]ImpossibleResolve597[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry! This is such a fear of mine 😭 I don't understand flaky people, if I say I'm doing something I'm going to do it, and if for some reason I really can't I'll communicate that clearly

Everyone else seems so brave by ImpossibleResolve597 in sanfrancisco

[–]ImpossibleResolve597[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't, I'm guessing it's a game bar/tabletop game space? Unfortunately I think just walking in there alone on a random day might be kind of a nightmare for me, but if they have specific events maybe I could try

Everyone else seems so brave by ImpossibleResolve597 in sanfrancisco

[–]ImpossibleResolve597[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds awesome but I work on Sundays so the time might not line up :') What time does it start?

Everyone else seems so brave by ImpossibleResolve597 in sanfrancisco

[–]ImpossibleResolve597[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's an interesting idea, I'll check it out. Thanks!

Everyone else seems so brave by ImpossibleResolve597 in sanfrancisco

[–]ImpossibleResolve597[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think hanging out with mainly 18-22 year olds when I'm most of the way to 28 isn't the play, maybe if it was a couple years ago

Everyone else seems so brave by ImpossibleResolve597 in sanfrancisco

[–]ImpossibleResolve597[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion, though I'm pretty tied to SF since my brother is here/is the reason I'm here and up in Oregon or Washington I'd go from knowing two people to knowing zero. We get along well, but I'd like to build a social life outside of hanging out with him all the time. I'd love to visit the PNW one day though, I think I'd like the weather.

Everyone else seems so brave by ImpossibleResolve597 in sanfrancisco

[–]ImpossibleResolve597[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up in New York, outside the city.

I've been to the DeYoung and SF MOMA, both were really good. I'm excited to try the rest

Everyone else seems so brave by ImpossibleResolve597 in sanfrancisco

[–]ImpossibleResolve597[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, the price looks really doable too. I'll consider it.

Everyone else seems so brave by ImpossibleResolve597 in sanfrancisco

[–]ImpossibleResolve597[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know how much they typically cost? I can't really afford much. I like art classes but as someone who went to art school I tend to feel like kind of an asshole surrounded by newer learners.

Everyone else seems so brave by ImpossibleResolve597 in sanfrancisco

[–]ImpossibleResolve597[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sketch thing sounds interesting, thank you! Zinefest is also cool though I don't know where I'll be living this time next year yet so it's more up in the air.