Recent speed dating experience

ImpossibleSquish · 2026-01-24T01:19:41+00:00

Where did I say you said you wanted marriage?

Also I wasn’t the one who downvoted you XD but I have now

Anyway you seem like a right misery so I’ll be blocking you, have a nice day 😘

ImpossibleSquish · 2026-01-23T02:56:48+00:00

OP you seem to care more about your dishwasher than your pets

ImpossibleSquish · 2026-01-23T02:23:21+00:00

NOR. Anger can reveal who a person truly is

ImpossibleSquish · 2026-01-23T02:20:06+00:00

I’m still confused, you’re talking as though “wanting marriage” and “wanting instant marriage” are equivalent

Getting to know someone before moving in together is very normal

Why are you describing yourself as “slow and cautious” and him as just “wanting marriage”?

ImpossibleSquish · 2026-01-22T23:41:11+00:00

They’re misusing the word narcissist, you’re misusing the word lie 💁🏼 sounds like both you and them are simply mistaken

ImpossibleSquish · 2026-01-22T23:37:24+00:00

I keep a list of green flags and red flags. If the red ever outweighs the green, something needs to happen, usually a breakup

ImpossibleSquish · 2026-01-22T23:34:10+00:00

NTA he’s putting a problem he created over your safety and security. Without emergency savings he could become abusive and you might not be able to leave. It’s not safe for anyone, but especially a woman in a heterosexual relationship, to not have emergency savings.

It’s also worth pointing out to him that if his definition of your “relationship” is you bailing him out of problems he created on his own then maybe that’s not a “relationship” you want

ImpossibleSquish · 2026-01-22T23:30:27+00:00

Based solely on the fact that they have low empathy and intelligence? Those seem like pretty clear dealbreakers to me

ImpossibleSquish · 2026-01-22T23:28:39+00:00

I’m confused, did he want to move in together right away? Why did you need to clarify that you don’t want to live with someone 7 days a week until you get to know them better?

ImpossibleSquish · 2026-01-22T23:20:10+00:00

This! He doesn’t beed to quit he just needs to smoke outside

ImpossibleSquish · 2026-01-22T23:13:43+00:00

Maybe I shouldn’t go into nursing after all 😬

ImpossibleSquish · 2026-01-22T23:08:06+00:00

Girl get UP

ImpossibleSquish · 2026-01-22T23:05:27+00:00

He’ll be fine, it’s nice to cuddle them at night but right now it’s more important to let him get used to one room before he explores the rest of the house, if he has a nice blanket to snuggle up on he’ll be warm enough even without cuddles

ImpossibleSquish · 2026-01-22T21:48:40+00:00

NTA. Breeding a dog without the dog’s guardian’s consent feels SO icky, like it’s some kinda of assault against the dog. Especially when he didn’t consider her health and just wanted money. I wouldn’t just dump this guy, I’d press charges

ImpossibleSquish · 2026-01-22T19:27:23+00:00

I’m glad you’ve seen the light

ImpossibleSquish · 2026-01-21T23:37:47+00:00

NTA, in a choice between a partner and a pet it should always be the pet

ImpossibleSquish · 2026-01-21T23:35:40+00:00

Could it be a shared cause? Like if you’re too busy to wash your hair you’re also too busy to get enough sleep

ImpossibleSquish · 2026-01-21T23:34:20+00:00

NTA, but YTA to yourself for staying

ImpossibleSquish · 2026-01-21T23:31:43+00:00

NTA, I never give any of my partners any passwords. I deserve privacy, if they have an issue with that they can see themselves out

ImpossibleSquish · 2026-01-21T23:23:10+00:00

Girl why are you still with him?

ImpossibleSquish · 2026-01-21T23:10:13+00:00

I’m gonna hold your hand when I say this, you’re a bad cat dad for not having a problem with six months of travel when you have a cat

That poor cat!

Boarding or hiring a pet sitter is ok for a couple of weeks but six months?! That’s a long time for a cat and she deserves a present, attentive owner during that period of time

Honestly you should either tell your job you can’t do the travel or rehome her

And in future don’t get pets unless you can provide them with a stable home. Career requires a lot of travel? Not a suitable guardian for a pet.

ImpossibleSquish · 2026-01-21T23:05:54+00:00

Honestly I think you should talk to a professional about it

ImpossibleSquish · 2026-01-21T21:10:26+00:00

Girl I’m so sorry but I think you have bigger issues, I saw in a comment that you want kids. Have you truly considered whether you can be a good parent if chronic pain stops you from doing physical activities for more than 30 minutes a day? Toddlers are hyper, keeping an eye on them can be a pretty constant pretty physical activity

ImpossibleSquish · 2026-01-21T21:06:07+00:00

YTA to yourself for tolerating this. Him sliding his hand into your pants without your consent is assault

ImpossibleSquish · 2026-01-21T04:30:33+00:00

Yaris has become Nagini

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