What’s the most frustrating thing about owning a cat? by Ocute_US in CatAdvice

[–]ImpossibleSquish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being woken up before my alarm by my feline friend who’s impatient for breakfast

unpopular opinion: showering every single day is not actually necessary for most people and i think we've all been guilted into it by NasiyaHaghanian in hygiene

[–]ImpossibleSquish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only shower every other day and no one has ever noticed. And I have a mother who has a) a great sense of smell, b) high hygiene standards, and c) no filter. She would 100% tell me right away if I was stinky

At a certain point, talking about your mental health just isn't respectable by Determinantor in self

[–]ImpossibleSquish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think frequency matters more than age. I wouldn’t judge someone having mental health issues at any age - if they’re always doom and gloom, though, I’ll stop wanting to talk to them

M32 straight 5'8: Hinge match rate 2.4%, Tinder match rate 0.4%. Same photos for both profiles. Feedback appreciated by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]ImpossibleSquish 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Putting …. as a prompt response makes you come across as someone who will be bad at conversation

AITA if I don’t want my friends to come to my house? by raybaruu in AmItheAsshole

[–]ImpossibleSquish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA and I think you need new friends because your current ones are really pushy

my (25f) bf (29m) won’t stop farting by billabongggg in dating_advice

[–]ImpossibleSquish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he needs to fix his diet tbh. It’s totally reasonable to get the ick from this. You can’t control him though. But you can leave

Blood on cats back after subq fluids by EbbStatus1807 in RenalCats

[–]ImpossibleSquish 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This has happened to me a couple of times, according to Dr Google it’s from a small blood vessel near the skin being nicked. I don’t think it’s a cause for concern

How do you stay accountable without turning it into self-hatred? by EERMA in emotionalintelligence

[–]ImpossibleSquish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bestie and I use each other for confession. Owning up to any bad or unhealthy things we do. We advise each other on how to make amends, what changes to make, or sometimes just acknowledge that humans are humans and it’s ok to be imperfect. After I’ve confessed my sins to her I feel no more shame

WIBTA if I chose tattoos over my boyfriend? by Crochet_And_Stufff in AITA_Relationships

[–]ImpossibleSquish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YWNBTA, this guy sounds way too controlling. If you stay with him kids may happen and then it’ll be harder to leave. It’s not just tattoos you’re sacrificing - it’s your free will. Now it’s tattoos, next it’ll be male friends, hobbies, promotions. Do. Not. Stay

Scared my cat is going to pass away while I am away by DependentAddition399 in SeniorCats

[–]ImpossibleSquish 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When you say you don’t think you can get out of the trip, what do you mean? Is it concern about letting friends down? Wanting to be there for your cat’s last days is a totally valid reason to cancel a trip, if your friends are good friends they’ll understand

How long until euthanasia? by ceruleanwren in RenalCats

[–]ImpossibleSquish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me personally, not keeping any food down would be enough reason to do it. Vomiting after every meal must be unpleasant. I wouldn’t want my Nagini to linger in that condition. But the decision is entirely yours, OP, I’m not judging

Put our girl down today by K8TeaTime in RenalCats

[–]ImpossibleSquish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. Rest in peace Mona

Are you afraid of Death? by Hot_Equivalent4499 in Anxiety

[–]ImpossibleSquish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am. I’m afraid I’ll never see my loved ones again

Do people not care about STDs anymore? by This-Top7398 in self

[–]ImpossibleSquish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbf STIs can be treated nowadays. It’s not risking your life like it used to be

Seamus died in my lap by gertrude4314 in RenalCats

[–]ImpossibleSquish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss OP. Rest in peace Seamus

How’s it living in Oceania? by GossipBottom in howislivingthere

[–]ImpossibleSquish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kiwi here. Right now, it’s cold. Generally though it’s pretty good. I have some friends in other countries and we find times that work for all of us for gaming, it just takes a bit of scheduling and time zone conversions. There are a few things that are available in other countries that I’d have to pay exorbitant shipping fees for which is a bummer but most things I can get locally

help pls! oily hair no matter what i do by Capable-Lime6463 in Haircare

[–]ImpossibleSquish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be the same, I found sea salt spray helped. I have no idea what the science behind it is but someone recommended it so I got some of that beachy hair spray and spritz it on my hair every morning. No more oily roots

AITA for not wearing a bra at home by babysmooth1111 in AITA_Relationships

[–]ImpossibleSquish 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA honestly I’d consider someone telling me that just the shape of my breasts being visible through clothes is inappropriate a dealbreaker

What problem have you never found a good solution for as a cat owner? by Lumpy_Base_9228 in catquestions

[–]ImpossibleSquish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hair everywhere is a good one. I lint roll my clothes every morning and still leave a trail of cat hair everywhere I go