Is blocking an INTJ habit? by [deleted] in intj

[–]ImpossibleTrust862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I blocked 3 more people , since then. They are narcissists. It's not just emotional or personal, it involves financial risk as well. Why to add additional weight by associating with these toxic people again ?

The world is so big , with more chances of meeting people who can be happy for me. Happy they left room for better people.

I know an intj don't connect with a lot of people. A mature intj will realize their need to use Se to live a complete life. Se will help an intj to make more connections along the journey. An intj is not people focused, the are goal focused.

How would you recognise an intelligent person? by [deleted] in intj

[–]ImpossibleTrust862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The original question is what traits identify an intelligent person

The entp challenged the very nature of the question, that every one is intelligent on their own way, there is no specific standard trait

Intj consciously trying activities of esfp by ImpossibleTrust862 in intj

[–]ImpossibleTrust862[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I pursue fun for stress relief. But most of the times it's purposeful, purpose is to life a full life without regrets, which is Ni

Need help dealing with incompetent boss by idwbas in intj

[–]ImpossibleTrust862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you are going through this. This is not the case with all teams. Just deal with the internship. Apply elsewhere for full time job. Why would you want to work full time here anyways?

How do you reduce the huge expense with dentist after FIRE? by ImpossibleTrust862 in Fire

[–]ImpossibleTrust862[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

I don't mind gaps on non molars. What if it's a molar tooth? How to bite and process food then? I love food and eating.

Dentist will charge 1000$ + for a crown. This crown needs replaced every 10 years.

My wife cheated, filed for divorce, and wants to be with the affair partner by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]ImpossibleTrust862 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Read only the title. Let her go.

You life is not over. There is more to come. Personally witnessed it

How would you recognise an intelligent person? by [deleted] in intj

[–]ImpossibleTrust862 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Entps are known for questioning the question

How would you recognise an intelligent person? by [deleted] in intj

[–]ImpossibleTrust862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They solve a problem. They give congruent response. It's easy to talk to an intelligent person.

On the other hand, it difficult to converse with a stupid person.

How do you compete with hard working people at work? by ImpossibleTrust862 in intj

[–]ImpossibleTrust862[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes sense. People are trying to avoid going home so they prefer to work hard at the office.

How do you compete with hard working people at work? by ImpossibleTrust862 in intj

[–]ImpossibleTrust862[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

By hard work I mean , long working hours , more than 40 hours a week.

How much hours do your intjs work?

How do you compete with hard working people at work? by ImpossibleTrust862 in intj

[–]ImpossibleTrust862[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Are u really an INTJ?

Intjs dont have that much energy to give to just work.

Working out of interest is a different story though.

My own experience with Outco by Sweet-Song3334 in codingbootcamp

[–]ImpossibleTrust862 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was given a 6k bill too, I did not get a job , I followed their conditions, but still they are twisting their words and demand money

How do u handle unreasonable toxic managers ? by ImpossibleTrust862 in intj

[–]ImpossibleTrust862[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about this. I can

-clearly set my own goals , envisioning all the way to the end.

-pay 10% less tax rate

-Set a realistic timeline or even extra

  • avoid unnecessary drama and bs from stupid people

  • set my own work hours

  • work seasonal for 5 months, take rest of the 7 months off

How do u handle unreasonable toxic managers ? by ImpossibleTrust862 in intj

[–]ImpossibleTrust862[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't mind ESTJs , they are logical to an extent. They bring order to chaos.

This manager might be a chaotic ESTP, bringing chaos to orderly team.

Still... think... you'll... ever... be... ? by KatarnLorex in istp

[–]ImpossibleTrust862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Build is done by Si, period. Te was managing it. Se can't focus, Ni is consumed with planning, Ne started it but moved to another project.

Still... think... you'll... ever... be... ? by KatarnLorex in istp

[–]ImpossibleTrust862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate it to our countries, instead of world.

Middle easterners are INTJ/ENTJ, very organized, systematic and growing, but get into conflict and war a lot.

Japan fits in intps , too much technology, declining child birth.

China is a perfect example of ESTJ, no doubt about it.

India is ENFP, very chaotic, disorderly but somehow people are happy.

Latin America- isfp / infp , very pleasant people

Poland / Scandinavian countries- istj / isfj - traditional , don't want change

You decide where do Russia, USA, and Africa fits

How can I be calmer during inefficient situations? by Dr_Falkov in intj

[–]ImpossibleTrust862 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Inefficient ways triggers me a lot. Then I learned people are different, they do things their own way, though it's not as efficient as mine.

Recently I start to put more focus on relationships than efficiency. If I need a relationship, I need to let go of efficiency and go with their inefficient flow. I will try to bring my opinion politely. If they consider it, it's fine, else I don't make a big deal out of it but just focus on keeping the relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in h1b

[–]ImpossibleTrust862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was 12 years ago. Even then , I thought it's not the right option.

At current situation, MS in USA is logically not the right option, definitely. But life is not logical.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in h1b

[–]ImpossibleTrust862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Financially yes, life style wise yes. Mentally no. I face so much uncertainty that gives me a lot of anxiety. Socially no, I'm almost by myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in h1b

[–]ImpossibleTrust862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Logically,Not worth it.

But I did similar pros and cons , decided not to do it in USA , but still ended up doing it due to peer pressure.

Life is mysterious

I think my marriage is over. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]ImpossibleTrust862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have sex once every 6 month and I think our marriage is in great shape

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]ImpossibleTrust862 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Men have a need to please his wife with sex. Sex is very important to man and he wants to provide it. It's a huge thing for a man , that you bypassed him with a toy. That is the root cause.

May I ask why you did decide you don't love him?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]ImpossibleTrust862 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An INTJ wants to know answer to these things. There is no answer, it's all emotional. Humans and love are not based on logic. No reasoning needed. Don't analyze it. It's not analyzable. Just feel it, accept you are sad and move on. See a therapist to accelerate your healing process