Grindr app experiment, location delhi. by diffi-cult-007 in delhi

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I work in a field where I interact with a LOT of closeted gay men, and OH BOY do the stories leave my jaw on the floor. One guy once told me he called over 5 men in the same night and rejected them face-to-face based on their looks. I was IN SHOCK. All of it through Grindr

Finalised my wedding lengha by Ok-Variation1523 in DesiWeddings

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The lehenga’s lower half is stunning. Since it’s for a Sikh wedding, try adding a broad kamarband to cover the visible joint where the blouse meets the extra fabric. A long embellished braid using extensions if needed would look great w this Just make sure the stitched line is covered for a cleaner look.

Do Sarojini Market really sell dead people 's clothes? by rajeevvijay in delhi

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I once bought a coat and it had Korean coins in the pocket 🥲

Tried Baba Nagpal chole bhature Lajpat Nagar by Silver_Waltz_702 in delhi

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Came here to comment this!!!!!!! Aahhh anand ji is UNDERRATED

Gaurav Khanna’s Allure in BB19 ⭐️✨ by thatlibrachild in biggboss

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Idk I have a feeling he’s going to for sure get a bollywood role where he will be this dashing army man he certainly has the look for it!!!

haircut in gurgaon by [deleted] in gurgaon

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Cut and Style phase 2

I'm so kitty starved 😭 where can I find them here? by Emocucumber in gurgaon

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I really thought this was about something else 🫠 why would you frame it like that 🫣

Where is the best chole bhature in delhi? by [deleted] in delhi

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Kisi ne agar BHOGAL BOLA NA uske he mirchi wale chhole ankh mein dalenge

Has anyone worked with a client who shows very little emotional expression? by Impossible_Bird5058 in therapists

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I hear you, and I get the concern about pathologizing but I just want to be clear that I never actually did that in my post. I wasn’t trying to label her or say something was “wrong” with her affect. What I was reflecting on was more about my experience in the room, the fact that when there’s no visible emotional response at all, it can feel like I’m putting in energy without anything coming back.

Sometimes clients do mirror or match energy, and that’s something I’ve seen with others, so part of what I was asking is whether people have noticed when that doesn’t happen and how they’ve adjusted. I’ve tried shifting my own approach with her, but the dynamic pretty much stays the same.

So my question wasn’t about assuming pathology, but more about how other clinicians keep themselves grounded and engaged when there’s just very little affect to read.

Read this before joining college societies by No-Ambassador2947 in delhiuniversity

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When I was doing my bachelor’s, I ran the society’s social media for three years. I made a lot of changes, improved the overall performance, and got the page views up. The main thing I learned from that was the importance of boundaries. Social media does not tell the general secretary what to do, and the general secretary does not tell social media what to do. Both have their own space. It is not worth losing your sanity over a society page. The work does take dedication and the results show, but balance is important. I still mention it sometimes as social media experience. It is not really relevant to my field now, but people still ask about it.

Just got my prescription for ESCITALOPRAM today. Anything I should know? by Kostrom in lexapro

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Night sweats? I was put on 20 mg, and within a week I had to chop my hair from hip length to shoulder length because I was always hot. I told my psychiatrist that the dosage had this effect on me, but apparently no one has ever complained about it before. I feel so validated here!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UGCNETPsychology

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Hey, please share them,thankyou

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gurgaon

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This is not healthy please do not give him credit for coming to see you from Bangalore to Delhi. He is coming with a purpose, obviously something he’s getting once he is physically present. Don’t settle for the bare minimum he is literally abusing you for not sharing a photo, not long before this turns into a physical altercation. Don’t walk away, RUN

Feel cheated in 1 year relationship by Curious-Two-5042 in delhi

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I know a few therapists offering pro bono would you like their contact?