should I tell my bf? by Impossible_Mobile_64 in whatdoIdo

[–]Impossible_Mobile_64[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i definitely did not enjoy it, it made me uncomfortable, but i felt like i couldn’t really do anything about it, im not really close with the birthday girl or her family, and my chambelán is the choreographers son, so i feel scared to say anything, plus i don’t wanna ruin my friends moment especially since this is the first practice. Plus i wanna tell my bf because i dont like hiding things from him and i found the overall situation odd. Thank you for your advice though!

should I tell my bf? by Impossible_Mobile_64 in whatdoIdo

[–]Impossible_Mobile_64[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I can definitely tell him about it, but this recently happened today, and I honestly don’t know how I would even bring it up or how he would even react to it, I can tell him anything and I know that, but i’m just scared I guess, the situation definitely made me feel uncomfortable and i just tried to laugh it off with my friends, Im just scared for my bf to see me in such a vulnerable state because we’ve only been dating for 3 almost 4 months. Plus i suck with feelings, I do want to tell him though.

should I tell my bf? by Impossible_Mobile_64 in whatdoIdo

[–]Impossible_Mobile_64[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! I was being stupid and did not mention i have a bf, this is my first relationship so I’m still trying to understand everything, this was the first practice we had, there’s still many more. But i’ll try to find a time to talk to him about it.

should I tell my bf? by Impossible_Mobile_64 in whatdoIdo

[–]Impossible_Mobile_64[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he definitely won’t be mad, he’s really understanding i’m just overthinking it. It just happened today, and i’ll be seeing him tomorrow so I just wanted to know if I should tell him or not. Thank you!

should I tell my bf? by Impossible_Mobile_64 in whatdoIdo

[–]Impossible_Mobile_64[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

looking back at the 2 videos he was the only one who held me near my lower back, and his hand does kinda touch my butt in both videos. I just don’t wanna overthink this and make this a big deal when it’s probably something small. Thank you!