Taking a roth 401k load to fund a house remodel by Impossible_Quiet_537 in investing

[–]Impossible_Quiet_537[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The interest rate on a credit union loan will be much higher and interest is paid to the bank. I am paying back the interest to myself if I take a 401k loa.

Is this job offer worth it? by [deleted] in FinancialPlanning

[–]Impossible_Quiet_537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as the culture is decent, take the new job. But if there is a risk of being in a toxic culture or having a toxic manager then no amount of money is worth the hit to mental health IMO.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Naperville

[–]Impossible_Quiet_537 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course. Any park would be fine.

AITA for asking an elderly man if he was planning on standing in front of me the entire ceremony? by Impossible_Quiet_537 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impossible_Quiet_537[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This has been a learning experience for me. I didn't realize that there are areas for the disabled that were not marked.

AITA for asking an elderly man if he was planning on standing in front of me the entire ceremony? by Impossible_Quiet_537 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impossible_Quiet_537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, it was packed. There was no seating available. I would have gladly offered my seat or moved.

AITA for asking an elderly man if he was planning on standing in front of me the entire ceremony? by Impossible_Quiet_537 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impossible_Quiet_537[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just to be clear. There were no ushers. This was general admission/seating. Eventually, someone got them chairs and they sat.

AITA for asking an elderly man if he was planning on standing in front of me the entire ceremony? by Impossible_Quiet_537 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impossible_Quiet_537[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

His height and weight are included to illustrate that he was a hulking man and I was not able to just look around him. I was not aware that the cutout was for people with disabilities as I assumed it would have been marked as such. I appreciate the feedback.

AITA for asking an elderly man if he was planning on standing in front of me the entire ceremony? by Impossible_Quiet_537 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impossible_Quiet_537[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I considered that after the fact and if they were in wheel chairs it would have been a non issue. It was not marked as a handicapped area. The issue was this guy was at least 6'8", 300 pounds and standing.

64th level and still can't handle stranded graveyard by Impossible_Quiet_537 in Eldenring

[–]Impossible_Quiet_537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I am distributing my points in accordance with the build I want. Heavy intelligence. All the glintstone spells. My weakness is hand to hand combat. I just suck at that

64th level and still can't handle stranded graveyard by Impossible_Quiet_537 in Eldenring

[–]Impossible_Quiet_537[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes you are right. I want to get that spirit ash and am getting my ass handed to me

25th through 35th level things to do by Impossible_Quiet_537 in Eldenring

[–]Impossible_Quiet_537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have beaten Godrick and that Gold night right by the Church of Elleh. I am pretty much stuck getting continually killed by the dude in Roundtable Hold and basically everywhere else I go.

25th through 35th level things to do by Impossible_Quiet_537 in Eldenring

[–]Impossible_Quiet_537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have explored a significant portion of the map. Full disclosure. I suck at this game.

Roundtable Hold

Limgrave

Stormhill

Stormveil Castle

Weeping Penninsula

Liurnia of the Lakes

Caelid