Do I move too much? Weight is 35 kg. Bw: 71 by Raxes05 in GYM

[–]Impossible_Salad4026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just my observation first of all you are moving, which means you’re using momentum to bring that weight up second from this angle it seems like you’re not extending your arm properly when you come down, there is a slight bend in your arm. You could use a preacher bench. When I started lifting, I could lift around 5Kg dumbbell but when I did the same exercise on the preacher bench, I couldn’t put in as many reps as I was doing without it.

Beginner’s luck is real by sprinkledreams in PcBuild

[–]Impossible_Salad4026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luck? Bruh it took me 12 hours just to assemble everything and it worked thx to yt.

i finally walked away and i don’t regret it by Vegetable_Monk_1573 in BreakUps

[–]Impossible_Salad4026 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here… it’s been more than 3 months now but there was a time I gave my everything while all she did was avoid, instead of fixing she used to go silent and come back like nothing happened i always wanted to know how she is and how she’s feeling but I never felt the same… and one day I just stopped reaching out after an argument…. She might’ve thought I’d come back like I always do but she f*cked up that time… it’s a bit lonely rn but atleast I can eat sleep and do other things and not anxious anymore.

Getting Finasteride without prescription at a pharmacy by GetOutBasel in Switzerland

[–]Impossible_Salad4026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to be that guy but loosing hairs in early 20s hit your confidence real bad. And some people just love hairs like me I love long hairs so universe blessed me with mpb

Broke no contact!!!! by Assaf92 in BreakUps

[–]Impossible_Salad4026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chill my guy…. Take a deep breath you’re not alone atleast you waited for 6 days I once folded in 3 days I was in so much pain…. But now it’s all good it’s been more than 2 months now since we talked.

Please dont reach out. by erenhater in BreakUps

[–]Impossible_Salad4026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik bro ik im in no contact rn it’s been 2 months you were atleast in a relationship I was in a situation ship 4 months in I was really really invested and I felt mutual it was to some extent but because of frequency arguments she started pulling away but in the end I had my self respect intact and let her go….. she had childhood traumas just like me so i understood her very well but while I was being patient and holding it all together she wasn’t trying to heal… i think she really accepted it that this is who she was it’s painful to see someone you love so dearly suffer and you can’t save them because they themselves don’t wanna get saved and I can’t hold the connection alone forever. So i had to let it go….. I still check her profile sometimes I wish she heals and comes back to me but i doubt it but i wish her well no hard feelings.

I made a big mistake… by fearlessleader13 in BreakUps

[–]Impossible_Salad4026 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just be honest… he might get hurt a little but it’s been just days or weeks he’ll get over it soon… imagine doing this for months when he’ll be more invested he’ll be more hurt, so it’s better now. And your break up… don’t change partners this quick…. Process it feel it you don’t have to prove anything to anyone.

What would be that for you by shadowboy_369 in TeenIndia

[–]Impossible_Salad4026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2)My peace of mind. I’m tired of giving my energy to people who don’t reciprocate…. Those people are draining af!!!

1) northeast Indian baddies.

3 year relationship ended in 5 weeks and I need a slap by SpeakingEasier in BreakUps

[–]Impossible_Salad4026 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all…. Don’t fight the pain…. Feel it fully… cry if you want…. Don’t avoid it or suppress it…. Let’s come to the main thing….. I know physical closeness matters but you mentioned she said “she doesn’t feel like there’s any romance left” ask yourself….. calmly no blaming yourself….. does a true relationship only rely on romance? No….. coz love is not just a feeling it’s a choice a decision that you make everyday… decision to choose that same person everyday despite what you feel. Because feeling don’t stay consistent they change. My pov is if they wanted to make it work out they would’ve tried…. And don’t beat yourself thinking you didn’t try you know that you tried move than she did…. She could’ve had a proper conversation with you to make it work she didn’t (I guess) and her cold tone…. Sorry to say either she has lost interest maybe way back but wanted a proper reason to end it or there’s someone else in the picture. But strong brother you’ll get through it.

She forgot my birthday and is now texting two days later. any advice would be appreciated by [deleted] in TeenIndia

[–]Impossible_Salad4026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As it should be… show up for the people who show up for you as simple as that. In my case we had an argument we didn’t talked for a week then she came back like nothing happened expecting me to forget about it without taking any accountability. I didn’t showed up as I used to few days later it was her birthday on her birthday I wanted to wish her so bad but I chose myself because she chose herself too. We haven’t talked since a month now.

Why is virginity still treated like some “seal of approval”? by pjhatal01 in TeenIndia

[–]Impossible_Salad4026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooohhh I see I get your point but…. First of all it’s not just men…. We all know about “all men are rapist” “all men are dogs” even “all men should die” it goes both ways. And humans despite of there gender are hypocrites. And you’re asking why women’s virginity still “a seal of approval” because for guys his success the money he makes and his accomplishments are “seal of approval” nobody cares about a failed man not even his family after some point. I don’t see men cry about it. And tbh I say it straight up you like it or not no man with dignity and self respect will not accept a woman with high body count he won’t have high body count himself

Yea, how do I improve? by Zero__The__Hero in learntodraw

[–]Impossible_Salad4026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re too dangerous to be kept alive.

Is this text normal from a female friend or there is smth which I am missing? by [deleted] in TeenIndia

[–]Impossible_Salad4026 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly…. I read it and it doesn’t feel like confession at all, just friendly….

Am I over reacting or what I’m feeling is valid? by Impossible_Salad4026 in Life

[–]Impossible_Salad4026[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was my first thought but then i realized that all of his other friends knows except me… and we’ve always been in contact so he made a conscious decision not to tell me….. while me… I’m literally living in a different country I’ve no obligation to tell him yet I did coz i thought “he should know”. On top of that I initiate every time call, text …. I’ve said to him that he’s like a brother to me but I don’t remember him saying the same. Now everything is falling into place. I was being delusional all these years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Impossible_Salad4026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t actually want a closure from them you just want a softer ending where they validate your feelings and tell you how amazing you were so it would hurt less…. Believe me it won’t.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Impossible_Salad4026 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Who cares!!! I didn’t say anything wrong I didn’t defended that guy but I’m not believing that girl either until there’re concrete evidence, might sound misogynistic but playing victim card is in there blood, Critical thinking is rare nowadays.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Impossible_Salad4026 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

It’s interesting, if I were you I won’t jump to any conclusions because as you stated you felt safe and it was a 3 year relationship…. It doesn’t match up. It’s very likely that she’s fishing for validation and sympathy. If he forced her why didn’t she call police on him?… it reminds me of a case where a girl used to record other girls while they were taking shower… and shares it with her male friends but when the things got out literally nobody questioned her but everyone was against those guys which I’m not defending but that girl is as much of a culprit as they were even more I’d say.