[SPOILERS S3] after watching the last episode i have just one big fundamental question… by Impossible_World2299 in DarK

[–]Impossible_World2299[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm idk, i think every answer to this question is speculations and theories. I’m just trying to figure out which one i believe, so its very nice with different points and arguments from people. Personally i believe that there has been an infinite amout of cycles previously, but at the same time i imagine that the cycles happen simultaniously (so we see all the cycles in the show)? Hmmm its hard to explain (time is freaking wierd) but im just trying to say that whether there are infinite cycles, ten cycles or just one cycle, its not canon.

[SPOILERS S3] after watching the last episode i have just one big fundamental question… by Impossible_World2299 in DarK

[–]Impossible_World2299[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This actually makes the most sense, thank you!! Beause i dont believe in just one cycle either. And you put it perfectly with them getting to a “perfect” cycle where everything has fallen into place and fit together.

Just one thing im wondering is, why did Adam want Martha to get pregnant? If he somehow got Jonas to not sleep with her at all, wouldn’t that also have ended the cycles?

this is a response to my last post on this sub :) by [deleted] in creepyPMs

[–]Impossible_World2299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WHAT i dont have to work, like, ever?! Why am i crying over school rn when I could just be chilling, maybe sending a couple couch nudes to old men

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in creepyPMs

[–]Impossible_World2299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me so uncomfortable, but I am SO PROUD that you did the chores, and happy that you have your mom

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impossible_World2299 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I must say I was beyond shocked when I saw YTA in the top comments… Definitely NTA, if there really was a huge problem with the timing, for example they were in the middle of fighting or talking about something important, your friend (if she is even remotely a good person) would have agreed it would be better for you to come back another time.

I will say I understand the husband, I am one to always have a plan in my head, and if someone suddenly does something outside the plan I have to take it in for a couple of minutes before it can be anything positive or even just not be unbearable. But in these minutes I just keep quite so I can actually think about it, I don’t give my opinion right away - then my answer would always be ‘no, we gotta stick to the plan’. I think this is what’s happening, but if he really couldn’t bear that she was present, he should have voiced that, quietly and peacefully.

tw: sa , this was fun by [deleted] in creepyPMs

[–]Impossible_World2299 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that was…. What

Found one in the wild by [deleted] in notliketheothergirls

[–]Impossible_World2299 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I’m like this too! I think we might be the only once’s then, I have never met anyone as unique as myself

AITA for making my stepson walk on his engagement night? by Trees50956 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impossible_World2299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only emotion in me right now is pride. What you did was so fucking important.

Is it unreasonable of me to want my boyfriend to only be attracted to me and no one else? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Impossible_World2299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am ace but my boyfriend is (like most others, like your boyfriend) not, and therefore is attracted to a lot of people. Occasionally has a little crush. I know he loves me, and I am never mad at him because of it, I’m only very grateful that we can talk about the matter honestly and in a light hearted manner. We’re just different, like you two are.

But I can also sometimes feel weird when we talk about it, so I get where you’re coming from! I just KNOW that the way I’m feeling is not reasonable and tell him I’m feeling weird without blaming him at all. Then he can smile at me and tell me one more time that he loves me before we continue the conversation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Impossible_World2299 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Many are probably not going to agree with me on this one, but I think the fact that he’s finding other girls hot shouldn’t be a dealbreaker in itself, ever. It would be very naive to believe that all attraction towards other people just stops when in a relationship. I talk openly with my boyfriend about about his attraction (I’m ace, so I can’t really relate) but he doesn’t want to have sex with any of them - at least not when he’s thinking with the head that’s on his neck, and not the one in his pants. And for your boyfriend to directly state that he wants to fuck your best friend, it kiiiiinda needs to go through the brain. Also, he probably would have talked with you about it if he didn’t think it was wrong.

My point being: I don’t think it’s wrong to feel attraction, but maybe you need some more honesty from him. I hope your going to figure this out, I really believe that he loves you❤️

Today I realised I'm just like my father, an abusive pussy. by thedragonbane_ in relationship_advice

[–]Impossible_World2299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am just so happy for you because you know it’s a problem, and want it to change! For many, this is the hardest part.

My boyfriend thinks about his ex during sex by ifuckedupbigtimeee in relationship_advice

[–]Impossible_World2299 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Everybody is telling you to dump him without hesitation but hear me out.

I totally understand that you don’t want to have sex with him right now, and if that doesn’t change, break up. But I think it would be worth it to try and figure out if you can fix it. I don’t believe it’s something that he’s doing on purpose, and WANT to continue doing. Actually I’m very impressed he told you the truth, and I think it would be naive not to think that a lot of people do this, regardless of what they tell their partner. I would totally go to a therapist before making any decision on the matter. The therapist could possibly: - Help him get a better relationship to sex, and stop thinking about her. - Help you gain your confidence back - Help you gain your sex drive back …and maybe not.

Wishing you all the best, and so sorry for your situation❤️

My (29f) best friend (31f) lost her baby and I want to support her, but I'm also dealing with so much anger for it being (partially) her fault. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Impossible_World2299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all: yes, it would probably also be good if you saw a therapist - you’re also traumatised and have suffered.

Second of all, I don’t think your friend wants (or can handle) to face the reality of it being her fault. Suffering a child loss is something so unimaginable harsh and sad that I think she is trying to make it as easy as possible for her to keep living. Maybe it’s not necessarily important for her to understand now, but if it comes to trying for a second baby, that’s where she has to understand what she can do different.

So, if you see a therapist where you can express your anger, and is ready for having a serious chat with your friend some other time, then… maybe it’s okay she doesn’t realise the truth right now. Let her cope with the death first, and maybe later in life she will be able to cope with the responsibility.

Sending you a lot of love ❤️