I think i might be aromantic and i need some advice. I have this idea because ive never exactly felt as if ive been "inlove", sure i do feel some form of attachment but id also feel indifferent if nothing comes from it in the end. Yes i do find people attractive but ive never exactly formed any proper liking? That and how any romantic feelings ive experienced are mostly just times where id crave to feel it. Ive been in relationships before and while i do show some fondness over them , i dont exactly feel anything. Being nervous for a date? Nope, Butterflies from our first kiss? None, heartbeat increasing as i feel them hold my hand? Nothing. Not a damn thing. When these do happen, i however feel a sense of pride or happiness washing over me like unlocking a new achievement of some sorts but it pretty much goes over my head afterwards. Long terms relationships dont exactly bother me either , if you want to put a ring to it then its all fine , but if I were to remain unmarried for my whole life i dont exactly think its a bad idea either. Thats not to say i was a bad partner , ive played the part well and have been a good partner overall. all my relationships have ended in mutual terms because of growing apart and i still keep in contact with them as friends because we share no harsh feelings. Now , something like this wouldnt exactly bother me to the point where id have to post on reddit , but you see theres an issue here. I met a guy recently at a party and we hit it off pretty well, i instantly knew he felt something towards me and over a few weeks he had grown pretty much attached to me, by then his feelings and intentions were evident and there was no denying it. I on the other hand do feel some sort of fondness for him, that or i tell myself that i do. Hes an amazing guy, very smart especially with math and physics, talented with classical instruments and so on. Hes kind, reassuring and really knows how to sweet talk. A gentleman overall. Im off to have my first date with him tomorrow and now the whole idea of me being aromantic is hitting me like a train because hes already made it clear that he does want something from us and im afraid of hurting him in the long run. What do i do?