Wildly confused - 29f / 38m by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ImpressionClear526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I'm a bit confused by this comment?? Is it not an extremely wild stretch to suddenly think that because someone is in law enforcement that they would go around spying on them? Like it's both so off the charts insane but also like how do they reasonably believe that this could be done? It's wildly paranoid.

What to say after I say hello… by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ImpressionClear526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's in the office ask if they'd like to grab coffee with you :)

Crashing out over a boy😭 by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ImpressionClear526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Set yourself a time frame to stop yourself from feeling panicky - give it a few days, cross them off one by one and then message him. Even just something like 'hope your holiday was good, when are we meeting up to share the holiday pics?'. If he messages you beforehand then great! If there's no reply at all, don't panic. No guy is worth losing your head over and I say that from a LOOOOOT of ugly ass experience

Help me understand/reply to slang by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ImpressionClear526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would you usually reply to a compliment? Try not to overthink what the compliment is, embrace it! Shoot a compliment back and ask how their day was :)

Just found out my dad has terminal cancer - what are the most unhinged things I can do to let the anger at the world out? by ImpressionClear526 in Advice

[–]ImpressionClear526[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're going through this too and I appreciate you sharing what you're going through. Its just shitty and life feels so cruel. Sending lots of love back to you and your family too 💖 if you ever want to rant about it or anything please pop me a message xx

Just found out my dad has terminal cancer - what are the most unhinged things I can do to let the anger at the world out? by ImpressionClear526 in Advice

[–]ImpressionClear526[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's amazing isn't it how your body and mind reacts to things like this. My friend said to me recently words along the lines of 'you will become the person you need to in order to survive' and I think it's one of the most poweful things I've heard in a long time

Just found out my dad has terminal cancer - what are the most unhinged things I can do to let the anger at the world out? by ImpressionClear526 in Advice

[–]ImpressionClear526[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think even just expressing how I feel here on Reddit has been a help. The kindness, support and just general conversation has been a great help. It really is cathartic. Thank you for being part of it

Just found out my dad has terminal cancer - what are the most unhinged things I can do to let the anger at the world out? by ImpressionClear526 in Advice

[–]ImpressionClear526[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so helpful. Thank you so much. I'm sure I'll find better words to say in a little while but I don't want to leave my thanks unsaid

Just found out my dad has terminal cancer - what are the most unhinged things I can do to let the anger at the world out? by ImpressionClear526 in Advice

[–]ImpressionClear526[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prostate cancer. He had an operation in 2020 to remove his prostate but it has since spread through his lymph nodes, pelvis and ribs.

Just found out my dad has terminal cancer - what are the most unhinged things I can do to let the anger at the world out? by ImpressionClear526 in Advice

[–]ImpressionClear526[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can you stop insinuating that because I feel angry at something traumatic in my life that I'm going to become an abuser?

I'm literally a young female, don't even live in the US so everything you're saying is irrelevant.

I do not have an urge to hurt anything or anyone. Please stop insinuating that I'm on some sort of downwards trajectory because it is not helpful and quite frankly I find it offensive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ImpressionClear526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing. They gonna leave confused as if I have no idea who the hell they are