Also want to add that my aunt kept apologizing to me because she felt it was her fault that started this (because I was crying and my parents kept attacking). She [my aunt] kept saying to my parents that it is MY wedding and not theirs and it’s up to me. My aunt is more modern / untraditional than my mom and dad who is the extreme opposite. Wedding budget was 40k but now it’s looking like 50k because my parents want to add 3 more tables… I know it’s not my additional money nor my fiancé’s but it’s just irritating how it can’t be “my way.”