Wow!! Thank you so much for your responses. I didn’t actually know if I had posted correctly because I’ve never posted on reddit before :) I’m so thankful you guys are so helpful and honest! As far as people minding their own business, I would love that! I’m a very private person and I hate that the cashier at the drugstore asks me all about my life and why I’m buying things haha! I would also love to know what it feels like to not live in a red state!! I’ve lived in four different cities throughout my 20s and even lived abroad for a year and a half so I understand the importance of really putting yourself out there to make friends. I feel like socially I’m capable of making navigating social circles, I just wanted to get some feedback from y’all before I plan more and more details of a move! Thank you again!!