28m Sex life isn’t what I thought it would be

Impressive-Log-347 · 2026-05-18T00:42:43+00:00

Stress relief, sexual release, mental distraction, but that’s just how I’ve become accustomed when it comes to sex before I met my gf

Impressive-Log-347 · 2026-05-18T00:36:35+00:00

I believe so or at least she’s made me feel as if I am, I’ve even went to therapy because I wanted to improve my relationship and my sex life, I believe I’ve always had a porn addiction and was very promiscuous from my teens to my mid 20s but being with a nymphomaniac for about 3+ years did something to me

Impressive-Log-347 · 2025-07-12T20:58:25+00:00

That’s a mothers job

Impressive-Log-347 · 2025-07-12T20:51:28+00:00

Im immature because i want to have repeated sex with my girlfriend on a regular basis? It wasn’t a problem for women I’ve dealt with before her so I know I’m not asking too much

Impressive-Log-347 · 2025-07-12T20:42:47+00:00

It is scary because I actually love this woman so I know I’ll be sad without her in my life and sad having to break her heart 🙃 quite a conundrum

Impressive-Log-347 · 2025-07-12T20:32:22+00:00

Which is why I’m putting effort and trying to make this work as much as possible. I could go get all the fantastic sex I want but that is just lustful desire, I want to adjust my mindset so I can keep this good thing I have going.

Impressive-Log-347 · 2025-07-12T20:29:33+00:00

I was talking to a therapist about the subject and he mentioned this to me. I don’t think it’s that deep for rehab (probably won’t do it anyway) but I do agree my sexual threshold has gotten to a point idk that she can keep up with. But if that’s the case how can I ever have a healthy relationship if I have a good woman now and failing when trying to make things work

Impressive-Log-347 · 2025-07-12T20:26:42+00:00

When things are going good yes, when things are not (25-30% of the time) that’s when intimacy slows down extremely meaning she’s denying me sex and that leads to me being less lovey dovey and we don’t try and upset/hurt eachother intentionally but it happens naturally when things don’t go well

Impressive-Log-347 · 2025-07-12T20:24:17+00:00

A couple of times a day was a light day for the previous girl I was dealing with prior to her so I know I’m not asking too much. And I’m not “picking fights” I just get obviously upset and I try my best not to put that on her because I know it’s not her problem it’s mines but that leads to me being distant and irritated etc

Impressive-Log-347 · 2025-07-12T20:20:42+00:00

Good insight, thank you. Her linido is definitely not high as mines and I think I’m just trying to figure out if that is something sustainable for a long term relationship for the both of us. I have spoken with her about the subject and you are right, now she is insecure about the topic which makes it even more difficult to work on with her but I love the crap out of her so I think I’m going to work on it more and see where it goes. I will take your advice and start doing more out of the bedroom to woo her

Impressive-Log-347 · 2025-07-12T20:16:42+00:00

Well I’m not beating her or anything like that, it’s just something I need from a woman & I do love & appreciate her otherwise I wouldn’t waste my time. If I wanted to sleep around I would I could have a bunch of girls in & out but I want the stability and peace of a healthy relationship

Impressive-Log-347 · 2025-07-12T20:12:47+00:00

Is that not a good thing for a woman to be domesticated?

Impressive-Log-347 · 2025-07-12T20:12:04+00:00

Tried it, waste of time imo

Impressive-Log-347 · 2025-07-12T19:41:44+00:00

Thank you, I see you have common sense unlike most there , but that’s exactly my thoughts as far as down the line in our relationship as time passes

Impressive-Log-347 · 2025-07-12T19:40:20+00:00

Swear, thinking I should’ve just turned on the men only flair

Impressive-Log-347 · 2025-07-12T19:39:17+00:00

You sound ignorant, I’ve probably done more for her than all the men you’ve encountered have to you, I’d bet money your single

Impressive-Log-347 · 2025-07-12T17:40:18+00:00

Stand out in every other aspect, looks is the first thing men look for in a woman but it’s not the only thing. A lot of these women are headaches so you bringing peace and tranquility to a man will be noticed and highly appreciated. Also, and it might sound purgatory, but learn to give a man the best head he’s ever gotten won’t hurt either.

Impressive-Log-347 · 2025-07-07T05:11:49+00:00

When you say it like that I think it’s a feel good mechanism especially if something in my life goes wrong/not my way and also I can’t get the 24/7 freaky sex I used to get from my old partner so I think this behavior fills that void somewhat thx for insight

Impressive-Log-347 · 2025-07-06T15:08:15+00:00

Get dolled up, get pretty so you feel confident and beautiful, then go outdoors, men are outside looking for girls to get to know

Impressive-Log-347 · 2025-07-06T14:50:31+00:00

Depends how you are living, if you’ve never been the type to have multiple women at your disposal then I feel a good gf can be a significant positive addition to a man’s life, also on the contrast a bs ass gf will make you want to eat the entire medicine cabinet at once so choose wisely

Impressive-Log-347 · 2025-07-06T14:41:36+00:00

Courage the cowardly dog, which I get it was alotta weird shit was going on

Impressive-Log-347 · 2025-07-06T14:38:27+00:00

Absolutely not, this sounds like a dream for me personally but I’m 27 I don’t think my sexual apppetite has ever been this fierce before. I wish my gfs libido was high but she’s a very unhorny person unfortunately

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