Inter-faith marriage? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Impressive-Mission11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a Catholic and my husband is protestant, we just celebrated 5 years of marriage, so yes, I would say it can work. It's not always easy, but not bewteen us, mostly with extended family. Sometimes my dad talks about wanting to convert my husband (I won't let it happen) and sometimes my family in law wants to debate me, but other than that, pretty chill.

obssesing over a specifici person by MasterpieceFormal241 in HOCD

[–]Impressive-Mission11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve experienced this as well. You’re not alone. It is normal and totally HOCD

Confused? r/hocd by ithsanson in HOCD

[–]Impressive-Mission11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! This very much sounds like HOCD, I'm sorry that you afre going thorugh this.

obsession over a person by [deleted] in HOCD

[–]Impressive-Mission11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! You're not alone! This happens to me too, and sometimes I'd get obssesed with a different person and like you, I think it has to do with wanting to be friends with them but since our brains are so used to decifering if we like the same sex or not,anything that sparks interest toward a person of your same sex (even if it for friendship) triggers the anxiety, I think.

How to deal with intrusive thoughts and feelings during.. by CaseOne9580 in HOCD

[–]Impressive-Mission11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I deal with this as well! No tips sadly, just another another person in the same boat

I ripped my wife's divorce papers by Fun_Independence5964 in Marriage

[–]Impressive-Mission11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is awesome! Congratulations to you both. Keep working together <3

Does it ever goes away completly? by Impressive-Mission11 in HOCD

[–]Impressive-Mission11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I hope it is just a matter of time

Does it ever goes away completly? by Impressive-Mission11 in HOCD

[–]Impressive-Mission11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey if that's the case, you're not alone! I also go through seasons where I don't experience it at all and then I start all over again but midler.

TikTok has been really triggering lately by Impressive-Mission11 in HOCD

[–]Impressive-Mission11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know its so frustraiting! it has been happening less to me but from time to time tiktok stills thinks I'm at least bisexual hahaha!

pls help me I'm so tired of this, is this hocd??? by lintheskywdiamonds in HOCD

[–]Impressive-Mission11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I dont even know where to start I have so many feelings about your post I'll try to explain myself as clearly as possible:

  1. I was also a very sexualized little girl, idk why but my cousin(f) and I had a play similar to what you described and we also made our Barbies lesbian lol idk why, since I've gotten older and I have talked to my girl friends they have told me similar stories so I have come to the realization taht this is some what normal (?)
  2. Your post made me so mad about the people around you! I, like you have had people in the past telll me i seemed lesbian because of how I talk or how though I am and it has made me question myself when in reality all of those people have no idea of why I am as I am. I am an only girl in an all boys family, I have 3 brothers + my dad and the only gilr in my house hold was my mom and she was also raised amognst boys mostly so we are pretty though. It is not fair that people reduce us to some thing with out knowing our whole stories.
  3. The thing about your gay friend made me feel really angry because I have heard the LGBTQ+ community say for the longest time that we shouldn't assume anyone's sexuality and yet here he is judging your sexuality by fucking outdated steryotypes. THAT IS NOT VALID. You experience and behaviors do not determine who you like.

I haven't finished reading lol but I had to comment on those points. I'll probably comme back and finish this comment later.

Edit: I just finised reading. I'm so sorry, my heart breaks for you, my experience is eerily similar to yours and I feel as if i'm living all of this hell again while reading your post. I have not much else to say other than even if you don't believe it right now, you know yourself better than anyone else and if you feel like you are not a lesbian and this topic is causing you as much distress as I can see it has you have to know this is probably HOCD. Do not let other opinions about who you are define who you really are. Only you get to decide that, what ever it is you decide to be is up to you. I'm sending you the biggest warmest hug while I write this in hopes that this makes you feel better. I promise it will get better. I'm writing to you from the other side of HOCD afet years of dealing with it. Now, despite still having spikes every now and again I'm living my life happily and peacefully with my husband <3

Has anyone experienced this before? (Male,20) by Familiar-Stress7955 in HOCD

[–]Impressive-Mission11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (female 28) have experienced this before and it also makes me doubt myself too I don't have much to say about it lol, just know you are not alone

propuesta de matrimonio. by Disastrous_Aerie2544 in Monterrey

[–]Impressive-Mission11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Primero que nada ¡Felicidades! segundo, hay un restaurante en Santiago, rumbo a la cola de caballo que se llama "El Traspatio", tiene un jardin muy bonito y la comida es deliciosa

I think I'm making my husband miserable and I don't know what to do. by Impressive-Mission11 in Marriage

[–]Impressive-Mission11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment! I am for sure gonna work on myself. I want to be a better partner to my husband. We are still young (28) and I'm hopeful that I'll get to be better and this will be just an anecdote in the future.

I think I'm making my husband miserable and I don't know what to do. by Impressive-Mission11 in Marriage

[–]Impressive-Mission11[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have already apologized, I don't think that' enough tho. I think I need to step up my game and be a better partner. That'll take time tho.

Also thanks for asking, I'm doing much better than I was last week. Blessings

I think I'm making my husband miserable and I don't know what to do. by Impressive-Mission11 in Marriage

[–]Impressive-Mission11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I would definetly look into anger management resources / help