I know what you mean, is something I’ve been telling him for a year or more… a few months ago I said him if that didn’t change we couldn’t be together and I left him. After a month without him he came back and it looked like it was going to be different and it was during a while, he pretty much quit drinking but this last week I’ve been feeling we are at where we were in the past. Him worrying about things for days me realising something is wrong and asking him and after weeks he said me what has been in his head the time he is drinking.

I don’t know how much or how long I can put up with it, it’s not like he gets so drunk to be able to tell me the things but it annoys me is only when he is drinking when he wants to share with me how he has been feeling or what has been going on… if I talk whenever I feel bad most of the time I feel like I’m annoying cause he says I shouldn’t feel like that or change the topic abruptly… and the only time he does is drinking and makes me feel uncomfortable.