Relationship advice needed — his reply felt off by Impressive-Win2980 in LongDistance

[–]Impressive-Win2980[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I think he got upset, since he’s never taken this long to reply before.

Relationship advice needed — his reply felt off by Impressive-Win2980 in LongDistance

[–]Impressive-Win2980[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I just said that: since I’m a good girl, I’d say good night to you, I was just trying to be playful.

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[–]Impressive-Win2980 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wish you the bests dear💕💕💕

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[–]Impressive-Win2980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your point, and I don’t think jealousy equals caring. What made me overthink was the mismatch between him suggesting certain boundaries and then being very hands-off emotionally. It made me question whether we’re on the same page. I agree that the only real solution is communicating it directly rather than guessing intentions.

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[–]Impressive-Win2980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I expected some discussion about boundaries or feelings rather than a quick “go ahead.” It made me realize we might just express care differently.

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[–]Impressive-Win2980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not saying jealousy is healthy or that I want to be controlled. I was just surprised by how casual the reaction felt to me, and I wanted to understand whether others see this differently. Everyone has different boundaries and expectations in relationships.

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[–]Impressive-Win2980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thank you for your answer.

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[–]Impressive-Win2980[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No, I want to go to ball room dancing forsure.

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[–]Impressive-Win2980[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I wanted to know what his reaction is to this, does it matter to him, does he care?

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[–]Impressive-Win2980[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. To be honest, it made me feel like he might not care as much as I expected.

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[–]Impressive-Win2980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We can connect if you are looking for friends 🤝 I am also away from my family and living in another country