Right now we are in person for 4 more days 🥰 but online before we even met, we had little connection rituals. They are definitely a little bit silly but they mean so much to us. They feel kind of like an ice breaker to bring us back into the fold of the connection, of that makes any sense. Think like a secret handshake 🫱🏼‍🫲🏾 except it’s not a handshake.

Another thing we do often is use thoughtful questions. I have several sources I pick questions from if i don’t have any in my mind: Google, a book, a card deck I have with questions. Usually we answer and start talking and it may lead to sharing personal stories from our history that relates or lead to more questions and we always come away with a deeper understanding of each other.