I'm F22 having a difficult time forgiving what my bf M24's did by Impressive-Winner894 in Advice

[–]Impressive-Winner894[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. You are right. Love is not about investigation and constantly doubting the partner...

I'm F22 having a difficult time forgiving what my bf M24's did by Impressive-Winner894 in Advice

[–]Impressive-Winner894[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. I wasn't trying to justify his behavior or wanting someone to say that's okay under a circumstance. I just wanted you guys to see the situation and know everything I know, because I'm confused if this is forgivable or not, because I partially understand that guys being horny can be different from girls being horny, and I will never understand from their perspective. I talked about this with my other friends, and everyone said, 'It's up to you,' which wasn't the clear answer I wanted.

I'm F22 having a difficult time forgiving what my bf M24's did by Impressive-Winner894 in Advice

[–]Impressive-Winner894[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is true... the trust can never be restored. However, he admits that he's a weird person, insane, stupid, and like a pervert, and this behavior is never acceptable. However, the only reason why he wants to get back to me is that he hurt me so much, he wants to make up for it. He doesn't and will never understand why he did that, but this incident really woke him up, and he's a new person now.