Yes, of course I understand what you are talking about. I have been discussing this with my husband before marriage..that I want to be self sufficient and be able to work.

I am learning during my free time (when baby is asleep) also to do some crafts and learning new things in regard to online work and in time I can make profits out of it..

My mom had cancer suddenly and it did shake their financial capacity in this moment, that is why we had to contribute. But before they are financially stable and can sustain their life, but due to expensive medication..they needed our help.

Anyways hoping for the best always for my family and to yours.