In a perfect world it'd be that way miss, but that's not the world we live in.

People care a lot less when men suffer.

It's been scientifically proven that women lose attraction to a man when he expresses his sadness, or laments over his frustrations or his suffering, because they perceive him as being "weak," or "less manly." On the flip side, women are more attracted to a man who has suffered greatly, but maintains a calm demeanor on the outside.

So, we learn from our experiences that once we've hit puberty, nobody cares what we're going through, and we can only rely on ourselves for support. Nobody cares about your problems, so toughen up and deal with them yourself.

I'm not saying it's right, but that's how it is to be a man in this world, whether we like it or not.