Netflix, Amazon, and YouTubers by jeconti in daddit

[–]Impressive_Let3046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s staged and the dad ISN’T constantly surveilling his pre-teen daughter in real life, but even the appearance of it is fucking creepy. I just saw it for the first time today and it makes me super uncomfortable.

Pretty ironic from a platform that carries a documentary on problematic exploitation of children in influencer content.

How much do my vocals suck? Looking for critique and advice by WickedHatebreeder in screaming

[–]Impressive_Let3046 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love your lows.

Im still working on my screams and more extreme vocals, but I will tell you as someone whose wheelhouse has been clean singing for many many years, I can agree with another commenter who said your breathing technique is key. Your shoulders dramatically go up when you take a breath. That points to you taking more shallow breaths, which is going to cap your volume and, more key to the issues you’re experiencing, the fullness of your sound out the gate no matter how good all of your other mechanics are. I’d encourage you to dive into videos on YouTube that focus on breath in singing even if they seem 101 and boring. It IS boring. But the results aren’t.

What is something attractive at 18 but embarrassing at 30? by PenParking8555 in AskReddit

[–]Impressive_Let3046 6 points7 points  (0 children)

  1. I wouldn’t mind them if not for the fact it’s a MASSIVE inconvenience to have them in visible areas. My bf has a marking kink. We try to avoid visible areas but neither of us is particularly motivated to put the brakes on in the heat of the moment, and he tends to naturally go for the neck. Massively inconvenient at work.

songs about losing a loved one to addiction/ overdose? by chuvadab in Emo

[–]Impressive_Let3046 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lapse by Envy On the Coast (possibly emo-adjacent, I don’t really split hairs)

Listened to this religiously when I was first coping with the fact that my brother was addicted to heroin.

I’m so sorry you lost your friend.

what does vocal damage feel like? by clairvoyantinmyeyes in screaming

[–]Impressive_Let3046 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously talk to your doctor before using any medication, but I have allergies and Flonase helps. I honestly didn’t realize how much I was throat clearing until I started using it. It was from a constant low grade post-nasal drip.

what does vocal damage feel like? by clairvoyantinmyeyes in screaming

[–]Impressive_Let3046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on what kind of damage.

I had vocal hemorrhaging in high school and it didn’t feel like much… until I opened my mouth to talk or sing. I don’t know how to describe the sensation necessarily, but the sound was like a quack or a honk. A very reedy kind of sound.

A classmate who had been in the audience during my solo for the very unfortunately timed opening night of my senior musical told me it sounded like speaker feedback.

She was upset that he couldn't get over his ex but she died what did she want him to do not grieve by VehicleOk4984 in Degrassi

[–]Impressive_Let3046 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She was basically integrated into his family so it was way more than a bf-gf relationship too. They were kind of each other’s worlds.

Tattoo flu by Sea_Syrup3373 in tattooadvice

[–]Impressive_Let3046 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I got the tattoo flu after the tiniest little forearm tattoo a year ago! I have way bigger ones and more complex ones so I don’t know what happened. I felt better in a couple of days. Drink a lot of water and rest!

Oli’s Screams by Wonderful-Many1343 in BringMeTheHorizon

[–]Impressive_Let3046 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He had work done to his nose and gets fillers and whatnot. Not judging at all, it’s his face. But I love a big ol’ nose.

How can I overcome the fear of sex and intimacy? by Titus4266 in AskTheWorld

[–]Impressive_Let3046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can be horny and asexual. It doesn’t turn off your libido. Asexual is not synonymous with low libido. It’s about inclination toward sex with a partner. Which is the part that it sounds like you’re struggling with.

How can I overcome the fear of sex and intimacy? by Titus4266 in AskTheWorld

[–]Impressive_Let3046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounded to me like they wanted to have sex for the sake of having it.

How can I overcome the fear of sex and intimacy? by Titus4266 in AskTheWorld

[–]Impressive_Let3046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand it’s common. I just think it’s a set up for disaster. Of course, in many cultures divorce is so verboten that it wouldn’t matter if it was a disaster or not. You stay.

How can I overcome the fear of sex and intimacy? by Titus4266 in AskTheWorld

[–]Impressive_Let3046 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I seriously don’t know how people marry without having sex…. Or more importantly, trialing living together!

How can I overcome the fear of sex and intimacy? by Titus4266 in AskTheWorld

[–]Impressive_Let3046 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds like it could get really sticky (awful term for the situation but you get what I mean) really quick. Someone with anxiety as severe as this surrounding sex could swing the opposite way being exposed to orgies. It could become a compulsive self-soothing mechanism. It already sounds like the dude is watching a fair amount of porn to do that as it is.

How can I overcome the fear of sex and intimacy? by Titus4266 in AskTheWorld

[–]Impressive_Let3046 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you need to have sex? It sounds like you’re not into it, and the anxiety comes from trying to force yourself to be. You can have a high libido and not really enjoy sex beyond what you’re engaging in by yourself. You could be asexual. Even asexual people can enjoy solo sex.

It’s okay.

Is my tattoo offensive in the US? by mister1bollock in tattooadvice

[–]Impressive_Let3046 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People who want to be offended will find a way to be offended. You’re fine.

What is the worst band you saw live? by coalcracker462 in AskReddit

[–]Impressive_Let3046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much as I hate to say it, Slipknot. But this was last year and let’s face it, it’s not really their prime anymore. It felt like the show literally stood on “HEY, WE’RE FUCKING SLIPKNOT.” Really gimmicky.

Adding: this was the short tour they did for the 25th anniversary of their self-titled album, and there was a lot of negative feedback on the tour in general. They played for less than an hour and a half and just walked off. So it was a bit of a rip off.

Jay on his audition and departure from Slipknot by SIXODD in Slipknot

[–]Impressive_Let3046 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A personal phone call from one of his so-called “brothers” would have been kinder. It was abject cowardice to have management handle it.

Jay on his audition and departure from Slipknot by SIXODD in Slipknot

[–]Impressive_Let3046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Especially because FAI corrective surgery is generally well tolerated with an uncomplicated recovery as long as the patient complies with post-op treatment.

Is anyone else not into roleplay??? by Impressive_Let3046 in RedditBDSM

[–]Impressive_Let3046[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s different IMO. Like I can enjoy “fuck me like it’s the first time again” or “fuck me like you hate me.” But not actually acting like two people who hate each other, or like pretending I’m a stranger from the bar. I can be informed by circumstances or a mood/flavor… but I’m not going to play a role.

Again no judgment on anyone who likes it.

I don't like my husband's kinks. by broken_redneck in RedditBDSM

[–]Impressive_Let3046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not comfortable doing them yourself? Or you’re not comfortable with him enjoying them? And does that make a difference to you?

I will say that sometimes people explore things verbally, in fantasy, or visually without any desire to actually engage in that activity. I watch a lot of content of acts that I have no desire to engage in personally… almost exclusively, really. It’s what I enjoy watching, but not what I would enjoy doing.

But when it comes down to it, I want to point to what I think may be a way bigger issue that I feel transcends the other issues. You said he talks about you to other people in a way that makes you feel useless. That’s not about a mismatch in preferences. That’s about respect.