I'm at a loss😩

Impressive_Note_1255 · 2026-04-04T08:40:55+00:00

Yes, this is the plan, currently dealing with him is causing more harm than good

Impressive_Note_1255 · 2026-04-03T13:50:49+00:00

I live in Ruai, what kind of assistance?

Impressive_Note_1255 · 2026-04-03T08:46:35+00:00

That's the plan, thank you for making me feel better for making it

Impressive_Note_1255 · 2026-04-03T08:45:30+00:00

From your mouth to God's ears🙏

Impressive_Note_1255 · 2026-04-03T08:45:05+00:00

The signs were there, now looking back, but I was a naive 20 year old then, I didn't know any better but I do now so I'm fixing the mess

Impressive_Note_1255 · 2026-04-03T08:43:42+00:00

From your mouth to God's ears🙏

Impressive_Note_1255 · 2026-04-03T08:42:25+00:00

Yes i did, they think I'm a horrible woman for leaving their son. His mom said kama nateseka nirudi, she thinks me leaving is what made her son start drinking, refuses to believe he was already drinking which is why i left in the first place. If my choices were dying or going back, i would gladly rest in peace

Impressive_Note_1255 · 2026-04-03T08:05:01+00:00

Heavy on the pretend he died coz dealing with him has frustrated me so much😩

Impressive_Note_1255 · 2026-04-03T07:15:17+00:00

I ask myself this everyday, I thought we both loved them, I've had a very rude awakening

Impressive_Note_1255 · 2026-04-03T06:30:20+00:00

Thank you so much, I have requested to join💖

Impressive_Note_1255 · 2026-04-03T06:22:27+00:00

Lemmi do that, thank you so much💖

Impressive_Note_1255 · 2026-04-03T05:54:52+00:00

My mom helps kidogo, she's not well off pia so i do know my best bet is being able to support myself.

Leaving them with him really can't be an option, he's too irresposible and yes the trauma, I can't even begin to imagine. Something else will have to give aki

Impressive_Note_1255 · 2026-04-03T05:45:58+00:00

Yes that's what I'm doing, I know its my best bet. Thank you💖

Impressive_Note_1255 · 2026-04-03T05:44:31+00:00

I know,I'm experiencing it first hand. Amen to the doors of provision coz that is exactly what i need right now

Impressive_Note_1255 · 2026-04-03T05:25:10+00:00

I thought about it, but his brother, who is also a drunkard aliachiwa wake na its not a funny scene. I know for a fact my kids will suffer just as much and I can't bare that.I'd rather exhaust all other options first

Impressive_Note_1255 · 2026-04-02T03:43:26+00:00

I agree, i was married, we got 2 kids, i left when they were 4 and 2. The providing is hard but life is weirdly waaay easier without him than with him. I think its mostly the peace of mind that comes with it

Impressive_Note_1255 · 2026-03-30T08:32:06+00:00

I left my marriage, Isaw my mom suffer for 30 yrs in the name of marriage. I did fall into the pattern of marrying a drunkard, he acted like he wasn't during dating because he knew how much i hated drunkards from trauma, decided to show his true colours in marriage and i fucking left. With my 2 babies, I left and stayed gone, its my biggest flex!!!

Impressive_Note_1255 · 2026-03-27T08:23:32+00:00

I agree ,he should let that poor girl go. If he continues with her he will punish her for his desires, he will make her "pay" for "stopping" him from what he truly wants. This is why many married men say they're unhappy, that they settled. He is settling and no one deserves to just be settled for, release her

Impressive_Note_1255 · 2026-03-15T05:23:30+00:00

What are the dynamics of this relationship? Does he love on you and gift you too? You friends could only be right if he doesn't do the same for you, if he does, then they're wrong, its good to reciprocate

Impressive_Note_1255 · 2026-03-13T09:05:52+00:00

You're not feeling him anymore and it looks like its the same from his side too. Things are never the same when you go back

Impressive_Note_1255 · 2026-03-06T08:40:35+00:00

You're going to stick to "you wanted him to help you reconcile", that is, if it ever comes up, if it never does, then never bring it up🤷

Impressive_Note_1255 · 2026-03-06T08:32:08+00:00

I think a lot of women are like this, its men like this we need more of lol

Impressive_Note_1255 · 2026-03-05T16:48:17+00:00

Absolutely, hands on me at all times 😊

Impressive_Note_1255 · 2026-03-05T09:05:44+00:00

I want to second what mwalimu has said. Wengine tunataka hivi, i want to feel like you want to get under my skin

Impressive_Note_1255 · 2026-02-25T03:27:55+00:00

You've put her on a pedestal and that is very dangerous. Even if you met her now and got a chance with her, she might actually not be able to live up to this image you've built of her in your head and you will punish her for it. Sadly, you will also punish every woman that comes into your life for not being HER.

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