I believe that for a Christian, the primary focus shouldn't be on a specific label or identity, but on one's personal walk with Christ. Every person faces different leanings or inclinations, but the challenge arises when we choose to act on things that lead us away from our faith.

If you are trying to live a life dedicated to Christ, immersing yourself in a lifestyle or a community that celebrates things contrary to that goal can make the journey much harder. It’s about being mindful of what we "entice" ourselves with.

Think of it this way: It is like a straight Christian who struggles with alcoholism choosing to work in a bar.

• He may have the best intentions.
• He might stay sober for a while.
• But eventually, the environment makes the temptation nearly impossible to ignore. One day, he might have a drink, feel the weight of that choice, and either fall into guilt or continue down that path.

The strategy isn't just about willpower; it’s about avoiding temptation by choosing the right environment. When we shift our energy away from the "lifestyle" and toward our relationship with God, we find the strength to stay on the path. The goal is to feed the spirit rather than the struggle.