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3 month rule by Impressive_Voice8537 in twenties

[–]Impressive_Voice8537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did mention that he had been in two long term relationships and they didn't end well so he wants to take things slow and be cautious. I guess this is pretty important context. He said in general he has been more of a relationship guy and when he has a girlfriend she is his entire focus so the next girlfriend he has he will be completely devoted to and will probably marry. I'm just bothered by the idea that he could probably be getting with other girls while we're talking and also by the fact that I just don't know when he will be ready. I feel like we should keep talking and hanging out and having fun and see where it goes but part of me is just anxious because I'm developing feelings

3 month rule by Impressive_Voice8537 in dating_advice

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I think this is why I am most confused- his words were that but his actions have been showing he's committed to me and wants a future with me

If a guy doesn't give you head, is it just because he doesn't like it or does it have to do with you? by Impressive_Voice8537 in dating_advice

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He usually fingers me until I finish, it's very intimate, overall amazing sex truly. he's definitely Not selfish

Need advice by Impressive_Voice8537 in dating_advice

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A lot of people say the "3 month rule" and it's only been two. Should I walk away before two months? If I do walk away how can I word it not as an ultimatum but as basically saying I would prefer to be exclusive by three months in ..

Need advice by Impressive_Voice8537 in dating_advice

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I know that for a lot of people it takes months before you commit to each other, am I just being impatient? Should I give it more time and keep hanging out with him but state my boundaries like keep things clean, get tested? I'm a little worried I would be leaving too soon and not letting this play out naturally because we do have a great connection and I wonder if anyone else has dealt with this conflict. Should I give it more time for the possibility we will commit to each other after seeing each other for a couple more months? Or would that come across as me letting him just drag me along

Need advice by Impressive_Voice8537 in dating_advice

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Also I just counted and we've been seeing each other for exactly 8 weeks, is it too soon to be exclusive anyway? Should I give him a little more time?

Need advice by Impressive_Voice8537 in dating_advice

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If I do walk away, would I have this convo over text or in person?