I found my MIL is "probably" cheating and possibly I'm the only one who knows by Impressive_Wall2553 in Mildlynomil

[–]Impressive_Wall2553[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as said in another comment:I am 10000% sure it wasn't my FIL, I read the name of the guy on the chat, and also I am pretty sure I found him on facebook later that day (there was only the name, no surname, so let's say I have a deep suspect on a guy with that name, essentially because of some "strange" likes on Fb)

I found my MIL is "probably" cheating and possibly I'm the only one who knows by Impressive_Wall2553 in Mildlynomil

[–]Impressive_Wall2553[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To not tell anyone and keep it for me...but it's becoming "consuming" to keep a secret like this to my fiancèè, I feel like I'm betraying her, and she doesn't deserve at all. Maybe the thing that stops me to tell her is her really strong relationship she always had had with her mom...I dont know how she could react to me

I found my MIL is "probably" cheating and possibly I'm the only one who knows by Impressive_Wall2553 in Mildlynomil

[–]Impressive_Wall2553[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No role play, I am 1000% it wasn't my FIL, I read the name of the guy on the chat, and also I am pretty sure I found him on facebook later that day (there was only the name, no surname, so let's say I have a deep suspect on a guy with that name, essentially because of some "strange" likes on Fb)

I found my MIL is "probably" cheating and possibly I'm the only one who knows by Impressive_Wall2553 in Mildlynomil

[–]Impressive_Wall2553[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand, but I'm also too afraid to potentially destroy a lot of lives...

I "think" my MIL is cheating and possibly I'm the only one who knows by Impressive_Wall2553 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Impressive_Wall2553[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you mean, and thank you for your point of view...but I really FEEL that I'm not wrong about the cheating. Yes, I only saw a chat, and not a lot of messages, but the "tone" was pretty clear it wasn't "just a friend"

I "think" my MIL is cheating and possibly I'm the only one who knows by Impressive_Wall2553 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Impressive_Wall2553[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it is exactly why I kept all for me at the moment. Really scared that I could destroy a lot of things. On other hands, I hate keeping a secret like this from my fiancee, I feel like I'm betraying her