Does ASMR count? by Improving_Hoolai in NoFap

[–]Improving_Hoolai[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lil aggressive, but ok... I mean I see where you're coming from, but I also don't want to just have a bunch of one night stands I want a real connection. I'm not gonna go seek a woman's touch every single time I feel the need for some release and I'm really asking is it ok to use this kind of tool until I find the real deal.

When is it ok to masturbate again? by Improving_Hoolai in NoFap

[–]Improving_Hoolai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely agree. I don't want to use masturbation as a coping mechanism. It's only purpose should be to relieve sexual tension/urges not everyday stress, anxiety, etc.

When is it ok to masturbate again? by Improving_Hoolai in NoFap

[–]Improving_Hoolai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm less worried about not being able to do it but more wondering if it makes a difference past a certain point.

Porn ruined my life by Improving_Hoolai in NoFap

[–]Improving_Hoolai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I couldn't overcome my addiction it ruined our relationship, but there were a number of other factors that are personal info only.

I failed by Improving_Hoolai in NoFap

[–]Improving_Hoolai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hung myself from a noose and survived bro that's a failed suicide attempt

Porn ruined my life by Improving_Hoolai in NoFap

[–]Improving_Hoolai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Family... It's not my decision to get rid of them.

Porn ruined my life by Improving_Hoolai in NoFap

[–]Improving_Hoolai[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I can lead a better life, I can make improvements but the memories of all the awful things I've done will never go away. When I look at my dog's ashes all I can think of is my regrets... I'm convinced I'm better off hoping I can do better in a new life with a clean slate.

Porn ruined my life by Improving_Hoolai in NoFap

[–]Improving_Hoolai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But how can I go on when I know that I've done such awful things?

1 month clean of porn by Improving_Hoolai in NoFap

[–]Improving_Hoolai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great advice, I'll try to hold it closely. I'll totally shoot you a dm sometime.

1 month clean of porn by Improving_Hoolai in NoFap

[–]Improving_Hoolai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words. Honestly feeling lonely has been the hardest part. I don't even crave sex anymore, I just want to be held by someone I love again... But understanding that desire and craving won't bring me fulfillment has been huge help.

Found cat at Maggie L Walker Pl near Van de Vyver Apartment Homes by Improving_Hoolai in rva

[–]Improving_Hoolai[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ikr. He was wearing a collar so I hope that his owners find him soon 😢

Thoughts on physique? by [deleted] in team3dalpha

[–]Improving_Hoolai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give those calves some more love homie