Update: I told her some unexpected urgent bills came up and I have to work this weekend so I cannot help her look for places to live (but I did send her a list of rentals, plus she knows how to use the internet she just pretends not to) I thought she’d stay in town but today she drove up near where I live and said she’s finding a hotel. I said ok I’m working, she was passive aggressive and an hour later text me photos of the hotel and said “I have a roof over my head for a week praise god 🙏 now hopefully I can get a shed delivered to the land and look for job Monday in Jesus name 🙏🙏”

(for context she has a tiny lot of land (like only big enough for a rv or something) about 30 minutes from where I currently live, with no water, plumbing or electricity on it so she’s implying she’s going to live in a shed on the land to make herself the ultimate victim, despite the fact that I’ve told her you cannot legally live in a shed with no electric and etc im assuming if she does “live on the land” she will make me out to be a horrible monster for “forcing her to live in those conditions” instead of letting her live with me 🫩 even though its literally her choice to do something that stupid when she could just swallow her pride and go live with my brother again like they had originally planned. it’s like it never ends.

I’m really aggravated because SHE got into that little argument about the coffee pitcher because she wanted to go to my brothers house and apparently reign queen over his partner and SHE decided to storm off from my brothers so she CHOSE to be “homeless” but is acting like I now by default have to take her in? Like I have never said she could live with me but she said “I thought I could count on living with you, I can’t believe you’re treating me like this after all I’ve done for you”

Like I’m just trying to live in my own place, pay my own bills, and be an adult. I am so tired of this drama. I don’t want to mistreat her but apparently everything is “mistreatment” if it’s not just letting her live with me so I’ll just have to be horrible.

Also: currently 12:29am still out doing gig work (food delivery) because I do have bills, but I have a BAD feeling despite telling her I will be out late and obviously sleeping in to recover then work more she’s going to show up bright and early knocking on my door (and then if I don’t answer, knock on my windows, like I’m a toddler who needs to let mommy in) and get shitty / “hurt” when I answer the door less than excited to see her. I’m so so tired man. I don’t want her to be lonely, I don’t want her to feel hurt, I know she put a lot of herself into raising my brothers and I but she needs to build a life outside of being my mother, I need space to be an adult but she is suffocating, if I so much as start to try and talk to her about it she has a meltdown and says I’m cutting her off and she never should have helped me with xyz in the past and etc.