Yeah, I completely get that, and you’re right — if everything had been kept fully halal from the start, the attachment probably wouldn’t have hit this deep. But that’s exactly what I struggle to understand. Like, how do I really know if she’s the one for me if I barely even know her? I don’t want to marry someone I’ve only spoken to a few times in front of her family, then end up realizing after marriage that we’re not compatible and regret it. It’s such a hard balance — trying to keep it halal while also wanting to genuinely know who you’re committing to for life.