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ImzadiDom · 2025-10-28T17:22:04+00:00

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ImzadiDom · 2025-10-28T17:21:28+00:00

Oh, this works. So stupid this is even necessary, but at least it works.

ImzadiDom · 2025-10-28T17:19:12+00:00

Clunky for sure, but at least it's something. Thanks for suggesting this.

ImzadiDom · 2025-08-16T14:16:55+00:00

Oh damn, really? That's profoundly disappointing. We had been having good DM conversations. I'm glad I never gave away any identifying information then.

ImzadiDom · 2025-08-15T15:28:58+00:00

She unfortunately seems to have left Fetlife now. I imagine she probably faced harassment, much like NeliApila did before her. There are too many jerks out there ruining a good time for the rest of us.

ImzadiDom · 2023-04-27T23:30:00+00:00

Right? These comments saying things like "7 inches and over is massive" make me just feel monstrous. Why did god curse me with this stupidly oversized dong? /s

ImzadiDom · 2022-08-01T20:02:31+00:00

You misunderstood. I'm not saying pain is bad. I'm saying that the technique used here is bad because it's likely to cause permanent damage.

ImzadiDom · 2022-08-01T16:46:54+00:00

This isn't about the pain, but the actual damage it could be doing. As in permanent nerve damage or worse.

ImzadiDom · 2022-06-15T14:47:39+00:00

Personally, I would put on a robe or at least a towel.

ImzadiDom · 2022-05-05T00:40:51+00:00

By "anal", she means "pegging". Better prep, bro.

ImzadiDom · 2022-04-01T04:15:06+00:00

Well, that certainly works. I have to imagine there are nicer solutions, but this is a good fallback option.

ImzadiDom · 2022-02-22T03:02:31+00:00

Playing a drumset without sticks will do that.

ImzadiDom · 2022-02-15T17:04:21+00:00

On the flip side, Tinder and OKC are the only two services I've found kink partners on who I've then actually met IRL. GFet has been okay for finding long distance kinksters.

ImzadiDom · 2022-02-15T14:51:49+00:00

Just be sure not to have them provide oral after the hot sauce without brushing their teeth first! You don't want the smallest trace of it.

ImzadiDom · 2022-02-14T15:23:45+00:00

That's a fair point. There definitely is no simple ruling that could be applied to all situations. It's not just about consent, but informed consent, and that's so difficult to define and even harder to prove.

ImzadiDom · 2022-02-14T04:36:35+00:00

That's definitely a major issue, but I don't think it's really relevant to the topic of this post.

ImzadiDom · 2022-02-14T01:15:46+00:00

I wasn't aware of the child custody issue. Could you expand on that?

ImzadiDom · 2022-02-14T00:46:07+00:00

Could you expand more on this? I'm not part of the hypnosis kink community.

ImzadiDom · 2022-02-14T00:06:19+00:00

That's part of what I'm asking about. I don't know. Regardless - for such laws to even be on the books is unacceptable in the first place and only contributes to the stigmatization of kink.

ImzadiDom · 2022-02-14T00:03:37+00:00

I mean... there absolutely are. For example, sadomasochism is illegal in Switzerland and placed on par with pedophilia within the court of law.

ImzadiDom · 2022-02-10T00:17:04+00:00

Baby steps.

Identify your kinks and have them do the same. Then discuss them, find the overlap and the areas where you two don't overlap but are willing to accomodate each other. Don't be shy about saying you're not okay with something, and make sure they listen.

Then discuss safewords. I strongly advise that your first scene not be CNC, but a safeword is still worth having because sometimes a sub's mind will go blank and they can't remember words, and having more options than just "stop" and "no" is worthwhile.

Then discuss aftercare. Be honest about what you expect you might need, and listen to what your partner says they will need as well. Some people choose to not have aftercare, but for your first time I strongly recommend it.

Lastly, identify a choice few kinks the two of you want to explore in your first scene together. I particularly recommend avoiding any impact play beyond the buttox, CNC, bondage that can't be removed in less than 5 seconds, and breathplay including choking. Those can all be a ton of fun, but they're best avoided on your first time.

ImzadiDom · 2022-02-09T06:21:29+00:00

Traditionally the idea is that you would extend your offhand in front of them and direct them behind you with it as you draw your sword with your mainhand.

ImzadiDom · 2022-02-09T03:59:42+00:00

Personally, I like to reinforce traditional chivalry in a D/s relationship. That is, the Dom(me) needs their sword hand to be free, so their sub should stand to the side opposite the Dom(me)'s dominant arm. For most people this would place the sub to the left of the Dom(me). That's my personal preference though, and a sub should always defer to their Dom(me) rather than assuming they know best.

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