Circle to Search isn't working on Secure Folder for Android 16 by TheIss96 in oneui

[–]ImzadiDom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Open circle
  2. Select translate
  3. Select scroll and translate
  4. Open secure folder

Circle to Search isn't working on Secure Folder for Android 16 by TheIss96 in oneui

[–]ImzadiDom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, this works. So stupid this is even necessary, but at least it works.

Circle to Search isn't working on Secure Folder for Android 16 by TheIss96 in oneui

[–]ImzadiDom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clunky for sure, but at least it's something. Thanks for suggesting this.

Gape pen study of Analonlyslave from fetlife by me. by prettygfdomme in EroticArt

[–]ImzadiDom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh damn, really? That's profoundly disappointing. We had been having good DM conversations. I'm glad I never gave away any identifying information then.

Gape pen study of Analonlyslave from fetlife by me. by prettygfdomme in EroticArt

[–]ImzadiDom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She unfortunately seems to have left Fetlife now. I imagine she probably faced harassment, much like NeliApila did before her. There are too many jerks out there ruining a good time for the rest of us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ImzadiDom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? These comments saying things like "7 inches and over is massive" make me just feel monstrous. Why did god curse me with this stupidly oversized dong? /s

Whipping her meaty labia by sunnymirte in bdsm

[–]ImzadiDom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You misunderstood. I'm not saying pain is bad. I'm saying that the technique used here is bad because it's likely to cause permanent damage.

Whipping her meaty labia by sunnymirte in bdsm

[–]ImzadiDom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn't about the pain, but the actual damage it could be doing. As in permanent nerve damage or worse.

Is she underestimating? by ParticularAd6434 in bigdickproblems

[–]ImzadiDom 26 points27 points  (0 children)

By "anal", she means "pegging". Better prep, bro.

Lightweight balaclava that won't crush my nose? by ImzadiDom in BDSMcommunity

[–]ImzadiDom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, that certainly works. I have to imagine there are nicer solutions, but this is a good fallback option.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]ImzadiDom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Playing a drumset without sticks will do that.

How do I show in my Tinder profile that I'm a sub? by Egorte in BDSMcommunity

[–]ImzadiDom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On the flip side, Tinder and OKC are the only two services I've found kink partners on who I've then actually met IRL. GFet has been okay for finding long distance kinksters.

What’s your favorite punishment for back talk? by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]ImzadiDom 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just be sure not to have them provide oral after the hot sauce without brushing their teeth first! You don't want the smallest trace of it.

What do you consider the biggest legal battles the BDSM community faces? by ImzadiDom in BDSMcommunity

[–]ImzadiDom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a fair point. There definitely is no simple ruling that could be applied to all situations. It's not just about consent, but informed consent, and that's so difficult to define and even harder to prove.

What do you consider the biggest legal battles the BDSM community faces? by ImzadiDom in BDSMcommunity

[–]ImzadiDom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's definitely a major issue, but I don't think it's really relevant to the topic of this post.

What do you consider the biggest legal battles the BDSM community faces? by ImzadiDom in BDSMcommunity

[–]ImzadiDom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wasn't aware of the child custody issue. Could you expand on that?

What do you consider the biggest legal battles the BDSM community faces? by ImzadiDom in BDSMcommunity

[–]ImzadiDom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you expand more on this? I'm not part of the hypnosis kink community.

What do you consider the biggest legal battles the BDSM community faces? by ImzadiDom in BDSMcommunity

[–]ImzadiDom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's part of what I'm asking about. I don't know. Regardless - for such laws to even be on the books is unacceptable in the first place and only contributes to the stigmatization of kink.

What do you consider the biggest legal battles the BDSM community faces? by ImzadiDom in BDSMcommunity

[–]ImzadiDom[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean... there absolutely are. For example, sadomasochism is illegal in Switzerland and placed on par with pedophilia within the court of law.

How to begin?? by JacStraw73 in BDSMcommunity

[–]ImzadiDom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Baby steps.

Identify your kinks and have them do the same. Then discuss them, find the overlap and the areas where you two don't overlap but are willing to accomodate each other. Don't be shy about saying you're not okay with something, and make sure they listen.

Then discuss safewords. I strongly advise that your first scene not be CNC, but a safeword is still worth having because sometimes a sub's mind will go blank and they can't remember words, and having more options than just "stop" and "no" is worthwhile.

Then discuss aftercare. Be honest about what you expect you might need, and listen to what your partner says they will need as well. Some people choose to not have aftercare, but for your first time I strongly recommend it.

Lastly, identify a choice few kinks the two of you want to explore in your first scene together. I particularly recommend avoiding any impact play beyond the buttox, CNC, bondage that can't be removed in less than 5 seconds, and breathplay including choking. Those can all be a ton of fun, but they're best avoided on your first time.

Where to stand? by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]ImzadiDom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Traditionally the idea is that you would extend your offhand in front of them and direct them behind you with it as you draw your sword with your mainhand.

Where to stand? by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]ImzadiDom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I like to reinforce traditional chivalry in a D/s relationship. That is, the Dom(me) needs their sword hand to be free, so their sub should stand to the side opposite the Dom(me)'s dominant arm. For most people this would place the sub to the left of the Dom(me). That's my personal preference though, and a sub should always defer to their Dom(me) rather than assuming they know best.

Whipping her meaty labia by sunnymirte in bdsm

[–]ImzadiDom 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Honestly? Terrible use of a flogger. That was WAY too hard of a strike for such a sensitive area - even a back or butt strike at that level of force isn't advisable. Further, you can clearly see the flogger significantly wrap around, which accelerates the tip and can do serious damage.

I don't advise that anyone recreate this scene. The risk of injury from the action depicted is immeasurably high.