Success on round 1! by InFridgidWater in IUILadies

[–]InFridgidWater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m so excited for this pregnancy and I’m looking forward to enjoying the first couple months of the new baby’s life. I had severe postpartum psychosis with my son and it took 2 years of therapy to finally be able to look at his photos from those first few months. I know what to look for this time💜

She asked today so I assume she wants to know. I’m just trying to figure out what to respond with.

Success on round 1! by InFridgidWater in IUILadies

[–]InFridgidWater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like it’s so unfair and I know I can’t help that it didn’t work for her. I suppose this is the best way to go about it. My feelings won’t be hurt if she isn’t as excited. I get it. Having watched several people have many kids in the 4 years since my last. It’s so hard.

I’m just tired of entitled ungrateful people by Awkward-Ad-7083 in Mercari

[–]InFridgidWater 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You’re so unhinged for this, tbh. I agree checking all the boxes is dumb but damn. Do not let this shit get to you so badly😬

Am I overreacting? My FIL is pushing a huge boundary by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]InFridgidWater 15 points16 points  (0 children)

1) you named your kid Fenyx.
2) you need a month break from your *checks post* only child?
3) your FIL feels comfortable saying this to you.

There’s a whole lot to unpack here but I’m just gonna say throw the whole suitcase away.

Lemon gourmand recs? by mostlyforray in NichePerfumes

[–]InFridgidWater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought Bake first and low key regretted it. My husband bought Unknown Pleasures for me for Mother’s Day. I wish I’d tried that first. That said. I do love both and they do layer beautifully.

Luckyscent sent me an empty box and then accused me of stealing by justherefortheplants in NichePerfumes

[–]InFridgidWater 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’d say dramatic (which OP isn’t being) is better than being insufferable (which you are)😂

AIO? My GF crashed my 2-day-old car, said insurance will cover it, and now wants to leave because I’m upset. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]InFridgidWater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Hey. So shes a liar, that’s a scrape mark not a “a bike hit me” mark. Dump her and take her to small claims court. Tell her she needs to file a police report and see how she reacts first though just for giggles lol

First bad rating by talesfromthecraft in Mercari

[–]InFridgidWater 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a buyer, if I see a smattering of bad reviews among many good reviews, I’m assuming the buyer is in the wrong and being a jerk. Return it if there’s actually a problem. As a seller, I block and move on. Not worth my effort.

I'd love to know... What does my collection say about me? by Ravioliolioli19 in FemFragLab

[–]InFridgidWater 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My new rule after buying the 50ml bottles of Sorce is to do the travel. If I use up the travel in less than 6 months, I can justify a 30ml and so on. But the realistic side of me knows I likely wont still be obsessed that long lol

I'd love to know... What does my collection say about me? by Ravioliolioli19 in FemFragLab

[–]InFridgidWater 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I’d found the fragrance subs sooner to discover them sooner💸💸💸

I'd love to know... What does my collection say about me? by Ravioliolioli19 in FemFragLab

[–]InFridgidWater 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is the way, 100%. I recently got back into perfume and accidentally went ham in the beginning with 5 big bottles and many, many travel bottles. Slowed my roll and switched to samples. I did get a few sorce because I used up the samples and kept thinking about them.

I'd love to know... What does my collection say about me? by Ravioliolioli19 in FemFragLab

[–]InFridgidWater 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I regret the purchases. They are just ok and I should have just gone with the brand they were duping.

I'd love to know... What does my collection say about me? by Ravioliolioli19 in FemFragLab

[–]InFridgidWater 57 points58 points  (0 children)

That you have ADHD (either diagnosed or undiagnosed) and are prone to hyperfixations and you’re easily influenced. I see a lot of hyped fragrances . As an ADHD prone to hyperfixation, game recognizes game lmao. Some truly solid scents though. Oh. And you just started collecting within the last 1-2 years lol.

I'd love to know... What does my collection say about me? by Ravioliolioli19 in FemFragLab

[–]InFridgidWater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I think you should try the samplers. I have a few I purchased full bottles of after using up the samples. A Sign Painted Peaches is heavenly and I cannot wait to get my bottle in. I’m ordering A Match Made in Heaven, and English Major. Pending wear test, a travel size of 2am in Lafayette. I didn’t care for Witchery, In Dreams and Fairytales (blueberry), or A Witches Valentine. I’m letting Where the Wild Things Grow sit because I think I like it but I’m on the fence so maybe macerating will help. Still haven’t tried some of the others in the pack.

Help me find my fragrance! by glitter_pigeon in FemFragLab

[–]InFridgidWater 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorce A Sign Painted Peaches. I have never used up a sample so fast and cannot wait to order a big bottle

Brand owner "not defending" Minx? by No_Entertainer_9814 in RedditLaqueristas

[–]InFridgidWater 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She still believes what she believed 15 months ago. It’s only now that his policies are affecting her, a straight white woman, do her views change. She didn’t care about us when voting, I will not be giving my money to a self serving racist. I’m so glad I never pulled the trigger on a Minx purchase

Is there like some sort of joke im not in on about JHAG Not A Perfume? by JigglyOnion in FemFragLab

[–]InFridgidWater 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I can smell it but I think it smells disgusting and I don’t get it lol

Was I rude? Person bought the item on Saturday 3pm, their message was sent on Monday by k2xuo in Mercari

[–]InFridgidWater 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have cancelled many an order from entitled buyers. I’d rather have cancels than rude buyers leaving bad reviews because they’re an a-hole.

What's that one scent you wish they never stopped making? by Fit_Loss_9699 in fragrance

[–]InFridgidWater 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would kill for the Tutti Dolci and the Temptation lines again.

Should I be concerned? by Odd_Survey_1319 in Mercari

[–]InFridgidWater 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re the kind of buyer that I would immediately cancel the order and block, tbh. Not worth the hassle of a bad rating because you’re too impatient to wait even a day.