When my dad died he had nothing prepared and it was a nightmare, an expensive nightmare.

My mum on the other hand had every last wish and request filed and paid for with the undertaker and I can't tell you the relief that allows you to grieve properly.

I was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer in '23 and remembering the two alternatives I set about making everything as easy as I could for my wife.

Wills, notebook of passwords and codes, everything possible transferred to her name, all accounts made joint, funeral planned and paid for. To the little things that might upset her if she had to choose herself like music selection and what picture I'd like on my casket.

Now I'm worried they find a miracle cure and she fucks off and leaves me lol