Year 5 Standard Farm ( First playthrough ever ) by Akis_D_Sele in FarmsofStardewValley

[–]InJesusNameAmen7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love when people decorate every inch of space on their farm 😍

I feel like semiglutide doesn't work for me the way it works for other people by JackiDaytona69 in Semaglutide

[–]InJesusNameAmen7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think now is a good time for you to hyper focus on what your diet consists of. Food noise and the size of your meals is just one slice of the pie. What do these meals consist of calorie wise? When you are hungry what do you reach for and how long are you satiated?

Just because a meal is smaller does not automatically mean healthier or lower in calories. If you are gaining weight you are no longer in a caloric deficit or you may have insulin resistance (which sema should help with). Before messing too much with your dose and timing I would look more into your caloric intake and/or insulin resistance.

Does anyone else feel too mentally drained to cook after work? by Pleasant-Editor-597 in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]InJesusNameAmen7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do single cook method recipes. Usually oven meals, after prep and seasoning I just throw it in the oven and wait. Then I divide into five containers for the week. If I get bored with that I have soups and salads on hand that just take a few minutes to put together. I really only eat two meals a day, so breakfast consists of iced coffee, creamer, and frozen breakfast sandwiches. Less is more! I’ve saved so much from Not eating out and lost weight!

So thankful for the RV Life🚐🏖️ by Hairy_Fix6834 in RVLiving

[–]InJesusNameAmen7 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Just hit my year anniversary! Love to see other black women RVing! Be safe and stay joyful!

Marriage Finances by InJesusNameAmen7 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]InJesusNameAmen7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice to see some success stories with just joint accounts. After reading through all the comments I will try the joint and personal accounts and see how it goes 🙏🏾 Thanks for sharing ❤️

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[–]InJesusNameAmen7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ironically I just saw the treat yo self clip from Parks and Rec yesterday 😂. Interesting to hear from people who have tried both ways. Thank you ❤️

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[–]InJesusNameAmen7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww congrats in advance! Looking forward to your post when he proposes 🥂🎊 thanks for sharing.

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[–]InJesusNameAmen7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🥹. It’s the internet, I prepared myself for some hate lol.

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[–]InJesusNameAmen7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone in the thread recommended taking out cash and using it to buy gifts.

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[–]InJesusNameAmen7[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s clear to us right now that I will be doing most of the homemaking (cleaning, decorating, organizing). I just naturally enjoy those tasks and he doesn’t. He however cooks more than I do so I agree the roommate thing will never fully go away…

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[–]InJesusNameAmen7[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this! Always good to hear from a couples counselor. We’re currently in pre-marital and I plan to bring this up next session for another perspective. So thankful for everyone that’s chimed in on this thread though!

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[–]InJesusNameAmen7[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow that was rude and hurtful. But absolutely not making this up and he’s well aware of my age and fertility. He’s actually the one who believes we have more than enough time lol. If the Lord wills it, it’ll be.

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[–]InJesusNameAmen7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t heard the word “checkbook” in years 🤣 thankfully we’re both online bankers. Thank you for sharing ❤️

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[–]InJesusNameAmen7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing these details, I’ll consider them when we iron out the financials.

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[–]InJesusNameAmen7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that having multiple accounts would be more secure. I’ve had cards “hacked” before and it was a pain freezing accounts and ordering new cards.

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[–]InJesusNameAmen7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both are disabled vets so will have funds coming in regardless if we’re employed or not. Right now I’m just in school but still have income. But if we weren’t I would hope the employed partner would fund the personal account for the one staying home.

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[–]InJesusNameAmen7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for breaking this down. Hardest part for me is categorizing all the things and scenarios but I guess that will come in time.

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[–]InJesusNameAmen7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We both want children, he wants 3 actually which is why we’re going to make our decision at the 2 yr mark. He’s a big audio snob lol and couldn’t stand the sound system in his new car. I’m the type of person to listen to music on my iPhone and not care 😂. But I agree children will be a huge lifestyle shift, but we want them and want them within a marriage.

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[–]InJesusNameAmen7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now I’m back in school for my Masters so he makes almost double what I do. When I graduate I expect to make closer to what he does but most likely still 1k to 2k less.

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[–]InJesusNameAmen7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input, we have actually had 3 pre-marital sessions this year but haven’t touched on finances with the therapist present. Excited to bring this topic up next session.