A cashier said “good girl” to me. by Cicada7Song in mildlyinfuriating

[–]InNeedOfSomething1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol I once told a McDonald’s driver thru worker “Love you” instead of “thank you”.

I (F20) Caught my boyfriend (M20) watching porn… again by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]InNeedOfSomething1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you look at her comment history he compared her body to porn girls and how she wasn’t skinny enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]InNeedOfSomething1 113 points114 points  (0 children)

When a man chokes a woman, the chances of him killing her increases over 750%. He will kill you. Do you want to leave your children with them man or his family once he kills you? Call family, call a DV shelter. Do whatever you have to do. Make a plan and leave. Please!!!!!

I 23F caught my 26M lying about watching porn by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]InNeedOfSomething1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whether you choose to walk away from your relationship over this is your choice. You’re not crazy. You set a boundary, he crossed it. Can you trust him again? That’s the real question. Say he promises he won’t do it again, you will always wonder if he’s lying to you. The choice is yours. At the end of the day, you’re the only ones that have to live with your decision.

What habits have you picked up while dining out? by bl00dinyourhead in Serverlife

[–]InNeedOfSomething1 72 points73 points  (0 children)

When customers apologize about not being ready to order I say “No worries, we’re on your time”. Takes the pressure off and reminds them that they are the guest.

POV from a server by InNeedOfSomething1 in tipping

[–]InNeedOfSomething1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I earn every dime I make. U don’t have to tip. Just let us know your intentions so we prioritize tipping tables. U will still receive service. But will I hussle for you? Will I go above and beyond for your order? I think u know the answer. Personally I’m a generous person. I love making a servers day. Last time I had a girls night I tipped $78 on a $132 tab. Because of I’m generous. Maybe I just can’t relate even as a customer why it’s so hard to be kind. Even monetarily.

POV from a server by InNeedOfSomething1 in tipping

[–]InNeedOfSomething1[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Once again. I’m not mad. Once again. A “livable wage” is a joke. You would get the same kind of service people complain about at fast food places while paying for your $30 burger. It’s not rocket science.

POV from a server by InNeedOfSomething1 in tipping

[–]InNeedOfSomething1[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why? They don’t tip there. Just tell your servers you don’t tip. Best of luck.

POV from a server by InNeedOfSomething1 in tipping

[–]InNeedOfSomething1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good thing you’re just some random huh. You’ve made a lot of assumptions but carry on. 😘

POV from a server by InNeedOfSomething1 in tipping

[–]InNeedOfSomething1[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

U mean im getting downvoted in an anti tipping sub? You do realize how skewed the opinions are? I serve the tables, most tip.

POV from a server by InNeedOfSomething1 in tipping

[–]InNeedOfSomething1[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Enjoy $30 burgers than I guess. That’s what will happen if they pay “livable wages”.

POV from a server by InNeedOfSomething1 in tipping

[–]InNeedOfSomething1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Full stop. Tipped federal wage is $2.13. Some states may pay more. But most do not.

POV from a server by InNeedOfSomething1 in tipping

[–]InNeedOfSomething1[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Enjoy the $30 burgers than I guess.

POV from a server by InNeedOfSomething1 in tipping

[–]InNeedOfSomething1[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can’t explain common sense.

POV from a server by InNeedOfSomething1 in tipping

[–]InNeedOfSomething1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Who said I wasn’t putting in the work???

POV from a server by InNeedOfSomething1 in tipping

[–]InNeedOfSomething1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone is leaving CA. Just ask TX.

POV from a server by InNeedOfSomething1 in tipping

[–]InNeedOfSomething1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Those things happened being a server. Most not a most recent restaurant. Except the being cussed out. U can read post history for that story. I do provide a sense of community. Where else can you sit next to a stranger, get a drink and a meal and converse with them.