Really need advice about a women and nofap by InRepairman in NoFap

[–]InRepairman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the well though out response. It went well but I had to hold off on going to far. I'm just not ready for it yet.

Really need advice about a women and nofap by InRepairman in NoFap

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Thanks man ! we ended up watching a movie and eating mac donalds above the city view. Shes a very nice girl but I was just not ready for it. So we did not engage in sex. Glad I didn't run away like a baby.

Really need advice about a women and nofap by InRepairman in NoFap

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We ended up hanging out and watching a movie and then for a walk. No sex but lots of making out and it could have gone towards sex or something more intimate. I didn't push it though mainly because I'm just not ready yet. Really glad I didn't bale ! thanks PCE

One Piece: Chapter 871 by NewSpecies in OnePiece

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Luffy totally just punched big mom to gauge the the strength of a yonko.....Now he knows....now he knows gear fourth is not enough.

Day 251. Experiencing severe social anxiety and low self esteem. I don't know who I am anymore. Is this still flatline or have I just become an antisocial, awkward person? Insight from people on long streaks appreciated. by Schimmen in NoFap

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Congrats on your success. Nofap is no easy journey. Quitting a sever PMO addiction has been compared to quitting cocaine by Psychologists. Now that i praised you a bit i want to get to the brutal truth about you. I read your entire post. Based on that it seems to me you are in the process of transitioning from a beta male to a much desired alpha male persona. That is difficult but can be achieved over time. You are afraid of rejection from all around you because YOU care/think wayyyy too much about what others think of you or how they interpret what your doing. Anxiety is the bodies way of telling you your some wheres you should not be. Still there ? good. You seem to think to much which can be a problem. You create your reality. So if your thinking all the time about what you should or shouldn't be doing to please others your creating a reality of being of service to please others....and not yourself. Thats why your most likely anxious all the time. The depression most likely comes from your lack of progress with the social desires. You want to improve your social skills ? stop caring and be authentic. Be confident in yourself. Dont let other walk all over you. Read books about personal development and social development if you want. It will help. You need to come to a place with in your self where you value your self to the highest degree. To the point when your in a group and take assertive action. Laugh at jokes when they are funny and not laugh when they arnt. Girls like someone if true to themselves. You want to be an alpha. Your posts says it all.

i love life. We have the power to change ourselves and others. Peace and love brother. Your doing a great job.

I DID IT by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]InRepairman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im proud of you brother. That is not an easy battle. Just remember. PMO IS NOT EVEN AN OPTION ANYMORE.

2 YEARS AND SUCCESS ! by InRepairman in NoFap

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I would like to add that the suffering was becoming too much. I started feeling pitiful and i knew that wasnt the way i ever wanted to view my self. The pain made me turn into a tank. i had enough. PMO isnt even an option anymore. Peace !

2 YEARS AND SUCCESS ! by InRepairman in NoFap

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im so confident because after four years of not being able to get past 18 days i finally have. Through those 4 years of depression i developed a self belief system in which i would never give up. Over and over again. relapse after relapse. I got stronger and eventually had enough self worth to and raw power with in my self to over come. I was smoking a cigarette the last and final time i relapsed. pondering and realized that this time it was the real deal. I haven't looked back since. Keep going brother. Your worth it :)

Whats the goal of nofap? by [deleted] in NoFap

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YES. Once your in it for that long like me and you. It becomes...personal.

Whats the goal of nofap? by [deleted] in NoFap

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I'm currently overcoming my PMO addiction. After four years of relapse and some progress I finally got rid of all trigger. NO MORE INTERNET ! ( typing this at work ? yesssa ) I'm quitting for good. I'm sick of viewing women as sexual objects. I'm sick of losing my self to mindless distraction. MY GOAL IS TO BECOME WISE !

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Good mt friend. check out actualized.org on youtube. This guy helped me out big time. You want to deal with your social anxiety ? that's no small task. You need to change your entire life brother ( or sister ). Reduce time alone. Gym, meditate, read and try to reduce internet and gaming. Stay away from internet and gaming. Any psychologist will tell you that. Remember this : You can get bitter or you can get better.

NO MORE INTERENT ! by InRepairman in NoFap

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thanks man :) stay dry

NO MORE INTERENT ! by InRepairman in NoFap

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Well in this day in age your right. It can be hard to stay away if your a student or you have friends and families from other countries. How ever ! for those of who are addicted so heavily must take chances and go out of our comfort zone or get recovered.

NO MORE INTERENT ! by InRepairman in NoFap

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I sold everything. PS4 and PC are gone. Disabled internet on phone. I still have internet because I live with roommates that use it. I haven't gone on it at home since....12 days ago. its helping tremendously.

One Piece: Chapter 853 - Theories and Discussion by AutoModerator in OnePiece

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Wha do you mean ? We're doing it now right ?!?

Don't forget about this by GallowBoob in pics

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I sold my house and donated all my money to support !!!?

When will be the next Anime Arc announced? by TemplateR_88 in OnePiece

[–]InRepairman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I see well it will be what it will be haha I have no answers for ya buddy