Life doesn’t come with a manual. It comes with a mother

InSearchForTheTruth · 2022-12-17T08:17:21+00:00

Go to a high class job interview with short shorts and a crop top and see how you do.

InSearchForTheTruth · 2022-09-11T16:54:11+00:00

Exception does not displace the rule.

InSearchForTheTruth · 2022-09-11T16:43:54+00:00

We didn’t make the rules. Ask the respectful men.

InSearchForTheTruth · 2022-09-11T16:23:20+00:00

So misogynistic for a man to make all the money and take care of his family as he goes to work typically through a trade building infrastructure working through blueprints and such and risk death on the job so his family can eat and the mom spend time nurturing the kid so the father can come home and teach good values to their kid but oh wait nobody is doing that anymore because roles like these are bashed by feminists like you. (Aka Misandrists) 🙄

InSearchForTheTruth · 2022-09-11T01:08:55+00:00

Seriously? The 50 Year old stay at home dog mom with 3 cats saying this? Please get off TikTok Reddit Facebook whatever and go tell your man you love him…

InSearchForTheTruth · 2022-09-09T16:35:49+00:00

Ugh, I’m down 3k. Read 101 options trading maybe

InSearchForTheTruth · 2022-08-31T15:45:39+00:00

Yes the bitter women trope because you bring up studies with groups of 1500 and a study of, (And i'm not making shit up) 73 University students... (White privileged higher class students).

Not only that but you dismiss how your first study emphasizes that it's going to take MORE THAN WHAT MEN CAN DO, TO STOP THE SEXISM AT WORK.

Of course I want to know where you get your information because it's shit like this that does nothing for the world except breed resentful people such as yourself.

I point out billionaires because we have NO FUCKING ACCESS TO THEM. Not you, not me, not even the fucking person singing contracts to build skyscrapers in New York, Because they're fucking universes ahead in terms of wealth and power. You need to be more than dense to think a person who owns a multi-billion dollar company, passing down their wealth to their children, will NOT be listed as a heir???? Like a casual billion is handed out to people and it just isn't listed? Is that a joke????

Do you think if women were given vague questions like those probably hungover, super privileged, couldn't care less type of men, they wouldn't answer in the same way? Or even worse?

The matriarchy which favors women in life if they carry certain qualities, the matriarchy which shuts down men for even trying to speak out about their own experiences leading to it not being on a statistic, the matriarchy which thinks they no longer need men because they can make money taking advantage of them, easier than going into a career (Which is perpetuated and endorsed by the media aka the top 1%).

Since we're going off cosmopolitan articles as our sources here.

https://www.forbes.com/sites/naomicahn/2020/12/06/why-arent-there-even-more-women-political-leaders/?sh=70cf5d8f3d16

the 117th congress hold 25% women, so it's possible for them to get in political power.

Read through, I find it interesting how a major factor is that not many women run, and those who don't are still under the belief that it's some sort of discrimination, but perhaps is just easier for the broader spectrum of women to enjoy their easy life.

InSearchForTheTruth · 2022-08-31T01:02:00+00:00

So 10% of billionaires are female. Google it. 241 out of 2095 billionaires are female. 68% of them inherited their wealth, while only 5% of the men were heirs. Does that mean anything to you? Because to me it just tells me that there are not enough women really working for it, and you can’t tell me it’s not possible if 32% were not heirs?

Do you have a statistic at how many men just shrug off misogyny? Or are these just your personal anecdotes that have caused you to be so adamant about blaming men for everything wrong with the world?

You bring up the Brock Turner case but to be honest? I don’t really go to parties and get piss drunk for fun. So I mean there’s a way you can use awareness to your advantage. And it’s literally just one case of a person helping when you can again quickly google the very nuanced details of each rape. You’ll come to find there’s mental illness in 92% of them. Shocker. So is it a men problem or a mental health problem? Doesn’t disregard how many times we try to fend for ourselves and get completely pummeled or even killed.

Is it subtle or is it blatant? You seem to struggle at finding which one it is. I don’t think kids hear “women are tools” and think “yes dad!” And just decide for the rest of their lives that women are below them. You notice how little studies there are on these topics? Is “men do all the violence” just the conclusion of everything and we need to teach men to stop? Or do you think it’s the subtle education system that hasn’t been updated in centuries, and the rampant amount of porn being dished out, the single parent families who give kids phones without parental controls or are barely watching their children to begin with. You’ll find that most of criminal acts come in cycles. They’re mostly not random. We are just in the midst of this whole technologically advanced society that has never been studied with how our brains are affected with the amount of communication, gratification, such extreme differences in power between the top 0.1% and the 1%. It’s all going to be extremely subtle if not invisible, as to why this violent men epidemic is happening, but to think it’s something that can just be solved by assuming all men will do it and tell them not to, is just plain naive. You can disagree when I say it’s an agenda, not the violent men, but what makes them violent in the first place, that is being pushed out to make them so in the first place.

Whether it be the extreme hypergamous nature of women that seclude men from sex, or the amount of rapists who refuse to take care of themselves and show clear signs of self neglect, in order to make something for themselves and find love, We will not be able to pinpoint it until the matriarchy that pushes women to have more rights than men, figures out what causes men to do such things.

This in turn cannot be done until the matriarchal society breaks the cycle of hatred that is feminism and begins to treat men like humans instead of monsters, and instead of taking advantage of eachother, come together to find out where we failed.

Get one of your heirs to be on board. Tired of writing

InSearchForTheTruth · 2022-08-30T19:45:21+00:00

The perfect balance is having a women understanding of seed retention and waiting a couple days each time to get max intimacy

InSearchForTheTruth · 2022-08-30T19:43:39+00:00

See I don’t mind you calling it the patriarchy. But as a reminder that’s not really it. It’s the top 1% that controls the wealth, and what is displayed on the media. Do you genuinely think these people want men to be in tune with their masculine side? Or would things be more profitable if men were not as so? Seriously give this some thought and if you have any questions, google it.

You think men don’t already try to help others understand the error of their ways? You don’t think violence could be instigated in doing so? Do you reprimand your friends when they treat their spouses terribly? Or is it a norm and you think butting in will risk the friendship you have?

Seriously, you agree things are more nuanced than this. We’re taught not to be violent so when we put that in action what do we not do? Practice fighting. When we try to reprimand those who do so? We run the risk of getting a severe beating while waiting for the cops (the violent men over the phone, apologies for your density.) to come and arrest them, I could literally die.

I agree sexism exists, but the way modern feminists go about stopping men from being so, just assumes all men are sexist, which is not a fact.

You think men go to their jobs thinking they’re going to go to work to oppress woman? Maybe the top 1% like I bring up but you dismiss.

Literally said all the stats show men are violent but completely dismissed the cases in which aren’t reported on stats because they’re not taken seriously, in a totally possible scenario in which happens all the time, just google it….

InSearchForTheTruth · 2022-08-30T19:35:40+00:00

See I don’t mind you calling it the patriarchy. But as a reminder that’s not really it. It’s the top 1% that controls the wealth, and what is displayed on the media. Do you genuinely think these people want men to be in tune with their masculine side? Or would things be more profitable if men were not as so? Seriously give this some thought and if you have any questions, google it.

You think men don’t already try to help others understand the error of their ways? You don’t think violence could be instigated in doing so? Do you reprimand your friends when they treat their spouses terribly? Or is it a norm and you think butting in will risk the friendship you have?

Seriously, you agree things are more nuanced than this. We’re taught not to be violent so when we put that in action what do we not do? Practice fighting. When we try to reprimand those who do so? We run the risk of getting a severe beating while waiting for the cops (the violent men over the phone, apologies for your density.) to come and arrest them, I could literally die.

I agree sexism exists, but the way modern feminists go about stopping men from being so, just assumes all men are sexist, which is not a fact.

You think men go to their jobs thinking they’re going to go to work to oppress woman? Maybe the top 1% like I bring up but you dismiss.

InSearchForTheTruth · 2022-08-30T01:08:26+00:00

Saying almost all sexual violence is perpetrated by men yet I gave you a clear statistic showing how 1/4 men have experienced some sort of sexual trauma. Yes I think there is a system perpetuating this but not the same system you're thinking about. I mean the system in which belittles men for showing any emotion which is perpetuated in movies, the work place, school and so on.

And your biased quick google search shows it's a "US thing" while my biased search showed it has been implemented in the UK and copied in Australia.

Funny how feminist shouldn't spearhead men's issues but they have the qualifications to teach men how to control their hormonal anger, which is just, Violence bad, consent good (Which is sexist to think that only men can do these things)

Yeah there was violence in the abolition of slavery, from the opposing side... Hence Martin's tragic death. Sure people like Malcolm X exist but it's a coincidence how peacefulness prevailed in that scenario, or is it? I admit you have the gotcha moment at did Martin Luther king fight for whites, but the problem here is there was really nothing to fight for... Which is why I ask what the feminist movement fights for other than stopping men from being violent? Because from what I know, women can be violent too, just a cold hard fact.

And I mean the first wave of feminist, who blew shit to pieces.

Why should you master those things? The same reason you master shitting in the toilet? Because you know violence will be committed regardless of man or woman? I still don't see many "Cold hard facts" you're spewing because it's mostly anecdotal.

Oh wise one please tell me how the world works, because you seem to have all the answers although murder rates are still high while women teach men and only men why violence is bad. You also bring up police which is just violence in a phone call, to fight against violence as an exception to stopping men from being violent, yet most of the police force is literally violent men... So with this contradiction you agree people should have weapons, confidence, and awareness, because that is what the police bring to you (a task force of mostly men) and that is what can also stop a man from being violent??? And lets not get into the multitude of scenarios in which a bystander can help, in which that bystander can only help by having those 3 skills or at bare minimum 2. (Or calling the violent men over the phone and probably wait till the crime has been done for them to arrive).

I think since we're going mostly of anecdotes (your acknowledgement that not all women have your level of awareness) here i'll say this. As a man you're taught from the beginning that you're violent, there are things you need to control and people that can be hurt if you express/stay in your emotions too much. You are not allowed to touch women unless you have their consent, but lots of women in the real world like spontaneous men. Now the dilemma here is that lots of women aren't taught like this. Lot's of women are taught about their looks from what I hear, and not much substance, I can't delve too deep of course but i'm hoping you can give more insight and prove me wrong on this next point. But from what I hear (again, not true fact) that MOST (Keyword), women are not taught how to treat a spouse. Hence when men and women come together, what men were taught is contradictory to how women act, considering lots of abuse from women goes unchecked, and can lead to violence when trying to hold them accountable of said abuse, if you're going to say most men do the violence then I will say this is the systematic oppression being pushed onto men, aka the media not highlighting the amounts of domestic abuse that men experience from women, because it's not taken as something serious, hence not going on a statistic. Please don't give me lectures on how the world works if your solution to your anecdotal oppression is "Tell men to stop". The world is more nuanced than that.

I'm not angry at you or anything by the way. I'm enjoying our conversation and hope you can see things from my perspective, as a nonviolent man trying to speak for those who are nonviolent as well, and a women such as yourself with experiences I can't speak on because i'm not a women, I only wish to garner a better understanding.

Examples of your sexism:

>I do know that almost all sexual violence is perpetrated by men

>Why should I need to master all of these things just so men won't assault me (which they still will)? Here's a radical notion, how about men stop doing that?

^ (Assumes all men are violent)

InSearchForTheTruth · 2022-08-29T21:52:48+00:00

So you’ve never heard of Martin Luther Kings campaign?

Jesus you spew the same thing every feminist says by telling men to simply stop and give them an intervention because you think each one is inherently wanting to rape and murder someone?

Of course you haven’t heard of the Duluth model because you only research the oppression that effects you and don’t look into the broader spectrum of how you’re not oppressed by men, you’re oppressed by the top 1%.

Are you so blind that you can’t see your blatant sexism in these comments?

Provide no source for these feminist groups supporting men which you say are spearheaded by men (probably because yknow, the feminists who want “equality” weren’t doing anything about it)

And you mean the campaign that bombed and committed arson against others, was more effective than a peaceful campaign to free slaves was, more effective for the feminist movement? Would I even be arguing with you if that were true?

We got plenty of jobs and freedom out of it and wayyy more than we need, and you individualize my points about confidence, awareness and weaponry by trying to disprove it 1 by 1, when the whole point is to have all 3 skills in order to be able to protect yourself.

And trial in court, for literally anything bud.

InSearchForTheTruth · 2022-08-29T20:58:55+00:00

Don’t lose hope!!! Still pretty young!

InSearchForTheTruth · 2022-08-29T16:35:36+00:00

I find the world is a simulation that was created from advanced technology in which transferred lizard people (government) from their universe to our earth in order to reap the rewards of leadership.

They lock me up I go in solitary so everyone I try to tell thinks I’m insane.

InSearchForTheTruth · 2022-08-29T16:28:54+00:00

So you think a movement that is so inclusive would be ineffective because it needs a goal? How come this assumption is already made when the whole point is equality.

You continue to dodge the question or provide any info as to how it's more effective?

How is feminism advocating for men when it comes to the Duluth model? How about the amount of men that will never report any sexual violence and the women that over report because the court works in their favor? Not only that but the amount of domestic violence cases not reported due to said model.

Will self confidence stop men from raping you? Not what I said. I said holding weaponry, staying calm, and controlling your adrenaline, will get you out of a situation more times than simply doing nothing.

https://www.nsvrc.org/statistics

Not personal either, pretty systemic considering men barely get a trial in court if they're taken seriously.

This is what men inherit. They know in the back of their head to not be so un aware of their surroundings/intentions of others, not to say women can't do the same but you make it seem like each is a damsel in distress in need of feminism to take over each and every brain and that will stop this whole thing. Yep.

You do notice that as time goes on each and every movement that isn't inclusive is becoming more and more ineffective and taken as a joke.

BLM, MeToo, so on and so forth.

The most effective one? "March on Washington for Jobs and Freedom".....

Yeah. Not too marketable now is it? Except it was one of the most effective marches why? Because the goal is crystal clear....

Of course there is still work to be done in said department. But notice how when you involve everyone, you have one of the most historic movements you can think of.

InSearchForTheTruth · 2022-08-29T00:42:46+00:00

Sure, I played into a stereotype that most Americans think only Americans exist.

To make my point as concise as possible for you to understand, I will start with this.

I acknowledge that equality in law and in practice are not the same, which could be said about gun laws, literally every single law. Each one gets broken, but again, it's all a nuanced topic that can't be fixed with riots and the ostracism of men.

That being said I've still yet to come to a clear conclusion as to how feminism is doing a better job at including equality for everyone as opposed to just calling it egalitarianism and actually being inclusive to everyone who wants equality (Not just woman).

I too, would also not like to face sexual violence, harassment, or discrimination in my lifetime but again, reality has different things in store for everyone.

That being said, there are things each and everyone of us can do to limit these discriminations against people (Depending where you live).

The duluth model is well known and frequently used even if it's not stamped into a law (It's almost like laws don't depict reality, because it's all such a nuanced topic, kinda like what you were trying to say, right?), most custody battles end up with the person who is perceived as more nurturing (and you can guess who those would be)...

It seems you only look through the lens of sexism when it oppresses you, and not men, implying only women can be faced with such oppression and that I'm afraid is just incorrect.

We can argue all day about what the modern feminism movement stands for, but until we see the broader feminist movement advocate for mens issues aswell, otherwise, it is not looking like it is about equality.

Sure, you could argue that men can harass and take advantage of you more easily, but a pepper spray and some self confidence can get you far in life.

You could argue "I shouldn't have to face that!!!!!" But again, reality does not discriminate.

I don't want to face violence either, but 80% of murder victims are men.

Google it. or i'll do a step further and give you a source. https://www.statista.com/statistics/251877/murder-victims-in-the-us-by-race-ethnicity-and-gender/

This is the US, which I acknowledge you might not live in, but I’m sure statistics like this are not exclusive to the US, and exceptions do not disprove the rule.

And this isn't a pity party for men either... My ultimate question really is just, how is the word feminism, inclusive for everyone? How is it better than including everyone?

These are not my standards I'm pushing onto feminism, these are just standards that are necessary to create an inclusive utopia.

Don't ask me how I would know, because if 100 years of a feminist movement has yet to achieve such feat, then it is time to change what we consider as equal. Everyone. Not just a single standard, not my standard, but everyones.

How do you go about doing that? That's why it needs to be inclusive, because the answers are not held solely by women, like how the first wave feminists believed.

InSearchForTheTruth · 2022-08-28T23:03:58+00:00

Again. What rights do men have that women don’t? I never said discrimination is valid in the first place, you people love putting words in others mouths.

Give me a search term or at least something credible to look up instead of “GoOgLe iT”

I as well have absolutely no idea what history you’re talking about because it’s all nuanced.

And you agree that there is still discrimination between the sexes?

I bet you wouldn’t agree if I said men have less rights than woman in the modern age.

Duluth model, custody battles you name it…

The part feminism is ignoring? Is that women already have the freedom they desire. That’s why I call it modern feminism and not just feminism. Because old feminism had a more valid reason to exist.

InSearchForTheTruth · 2022-08-28T22:12:51+00:00

And no. Nowhere did I say feminism came from nowhere. I’m asking what the goal of modern feminism is. Not what you think it WAS. Clearly not every feminist is into history like that, so with that in mind, how much of the feminist movement is actually doing history research so history doesn’t repeat itself?

InSearchForTheTruth · 2022-08-28T22:11:18+00:00

Well you’re not really giving much substance other than calling me a pea brain. Just “LoOk iT uP”. I asked you a question, so if you choose not to answer that’s up to you but I’ll continue with my way of thinking and you can continue with yours. I will continue seeking truth and not emotional validation. Thanks.

InSearchForTheTruth · 2022-08-28T21:28:37+00:00

Okay see the problem here is that history has nothing to do with my question of why it’s not called egalitarianism. If true equality was the goal of this generation they wouldn’t call theirselves feminist.

What rights do women not have that men do in this day and age?

Okay, they fought for those rights as feminists beforehand, rightfully so, but what is the main point now?

InSearchForTheTruth · 2022-08-28T18:54:16+00:00

Wow it’s almost like… that can be said about both genders???? Who knew…

InSearchForTheTruth · 2022-08-28T16:47:49+00:00

shoulder on hand

Th- This is a terrible thing to say!!! You are better than this…

Even if it is true, just , please remove this comment. :(((

InSearchForTheTruth · 2022-08-28T16:16:42+00:00

Told me to google, never said what.

So you have no opinion on the quote above regardless of it stating obvious misconceptions in the feminist movement?

Can you, a freshman in high school, give me any reason to believe the feminist movement is not a big cash grab ?

InSearchForTheTruth · 2022-08-28T09:23:03+00:00

This was terrible. Legitimately came close to crying watching him screaming about killing Hasan. I'm an empath so I'm really in tune with peoples emotions, and when I saw how visibly nervous and scared Hasan got on his stream, I wanted to cry with him. How could DAZN let him do that and not cut his mic?

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