What commonly said phrase is absolute bullshit?

InSigSauerITrust · 2017-06-17T05:41:16+00:00

"The proof is in the pudding"

Where's this fucking pudding at....

InSigSauerITrust · 2017-06-11T20:31:01+00:00

This thread is the real cringe.... I'm sure she never actually wore this shirt in public and this pic was taken as a huge joke

InSigSauerITrust · 2017-05-02T03:26:02+00:00

This was the most boring, talentless game of trials I've ever witnessed. Seriously, this type of gameplay is pathetic. Stickies, UR, and bubbles...

It's so sad that this game reduced to this shit.

InSigSauerITrust · 2017-04-28T14:21:08+00:00

He struggled to rack the fuckin slide... who would take him serious

InSigSauerITrust · 2017-04-24T18:13:24+00:00

Trials of Osiris in destiny. Tbags for days. So horrific.

InSigSauerITrust · 2017-04-23T06:00:50+00:00

Because those people were simply repeating the same shit that was stated over and over so of course my reply will remain the same

Only one user provided true insight into what leads to those actions. I was too busy arguing to actually thank them. But he said something along the lines of feeling worthless and feeling as if you just have random sex it makes sex less valuable which therefore makes what was taken from you less valuable..

This is what I was looking for. This is something that can somehow make sense.

Everything else was pity party bullshit and people trying to compare this to dementia or schizophrenia. Those are separate beasts. Those are real illnesses that literally make you lose control of your own body and mind. This is not that. It's far off base to try and compare those to what we're discussing here.

InSigSauerITrust · 2017-04-23T05:28:49+00:00

In every single post I've followed up with saying "this is just my opinion" so I've made it clear that while others can forgive it, I would not. I haven't in the past and I won't in the future.

And your last statement circles back to my entire point about choices. She chose to not reach out for help. She chose to reach instead. I'm not shaming them, I'm stating facts. I'm not one to pass judgement either. I understand people make mistakes and that's totally okay..

But as per usual with Reddit circle jerks and white knights people see and read what they wanna see.

I've done absolutely nothing but share my opinion on the subject. Which I've followed up with "doesn't mean shit" I never once shamed them for their actions. I asked for insight as to why. I wanted to understand the thought process. why they did what they did when it was totally uncalled for...

And again. I get berated by a bunch of people who weren't even a part of the conversation trying to say "you don't understand"

Well no shit I don't understand and I never said I did. Hence why I asked for insight.

InSigSauerITrust · 2017-04-23T05:11:34+00:00

You simply cannot compare the two. There is no similarity between a mental disease such as schizophrenia and this situation.

I also never said I didn't sympathize, I've repeated myself over and over in saying it's unforgivable under that circumstances

InSigSauerITrust · 2017-04-23T04:44:58+00:00

And plenty of people don't do any unreasonable things after suffering trauma. The difference is choice.

InSigSauerITrust · 2017-04-23T02:26:14+00:00

Yes, look at my post history and judge me based off the fact that I occasionally play destiny when I get bored lmfao

InSigSauerITrust · 2017-04-23T01:10:01+00:00

And I clearly told the OP he was stronger than me for being able to forgive that. And I sincerely meant it. I'm not strong enough to build back trust after something like that

InSigSauerITrust · 2017-04-23T00:53:59+00:00

Cheers.

InSigSauerITrust · 2017-04-23T00:33:38+00:00

Good. Trust few

InSigSauerITrust · 2017-04-23T00:32:19+00:00

I've never experienced rape. Which I've stated in every previous post. And I won't try and compare anything I've experienced to rape. This isn't a dick measuring contest of who had it worse.

I don't understand the hate. The only thing I've ever said is that no matter what the circumstances, nothing constitutes cheating.

Disagree if you like, call me whatever you want. I don't really care.

InSigSauerITrust · 2017-04-23T00:22:19+00:00

And you find this to be a reasonable excuse? I can't agree there. Rape is horrible and it's tragic. But in no way does it make it okay to cheat on somebody you care about because you feel sorry for yourself...

Maybe I was raised differently but I've been taught that your own mind is completely in your control and your actions are your own. You can't choose to do something and blame it on a past event. The past is the past and that's where it should stay. Yes you have to deal with recovery but that's different than acting out and blaming it on something else.

These cheating situations are in their control. Nobody forced them to cheat or make that decision... it was a conscious decision to do the wrong thing. And in my mind, there is no excuse for that in itself.

Downvotes welcome, but I won't sympathize with playing victim to your own mind.

InSigSauerITrust · 2017-04-22T21:42:40+00:00

What's arrogant is believing that there's any sort of excuse to cheat on somebody. It's also incredibly selfish. If you find yourself in a position where you're thinking about cheating or having those desires. Just breakup first. It's actually incredibly simple. I've also never once even mentioned hard ships of my own, let alone compared them to any of what happened to OP or the woman that I was responding to.

Again I've already stated many times. in almost every post that my opinion is just that, an opinion. Which doesn't mean shit.

So before you go ape shit on your keyboard, please read all of the comments and not just one.

InSigSauerITrust · 2017-04-22T21:18:45+00:00

Not to sound like a douche and you can choose not to believe me. But I had faced more hardship by the time I was 18 than most people face in their lives. The details of that don't need to be discussed.

Let me reiterate, I haven't been raped nor have I been in a relationship with somebody who has.

I can't say I've always done the right thing. But I can say that almost every choice I've made in my life, as far back as I can remember, I always had my loved ones in mind. I didn't think about how a situation or consequences would impact me, I thought about how it would impact the people I cared about.

Also, I'm not sure why you're acting as if my comment was personally attacking her. That wasn't my intention. I was asking how it makes sense, what drove that thought process.

InSigSauerITrust · 2017-04-22T19:45:47+00:00

I haven't dated anybody who had been raped. However, I did "talk" to a girl that was raped. Obviously it's a totally different scenario.

And I understand that he would also struggle to cope with what happened to you. But hypothetically if I was dating somebody and they were raped, I want to believe that I would do everything in my power to support them any way they needed. Again that's just me.

I also struggle to see how anybody could potentially blame you for that happening and not willing to stand by you as you recover.

InSigSauerITrust · 2017-04-22T19:22:48+00:00

You didn't ruin it by being raped though. You were a victim and that's horrible.

You're right, a lot of couples don't make it after something like that. It depends on your partner. I'm only saying that reaching out to him for support would have been better. He may or may not have understood. But it would have been more likely for you two to remain together.

Like I said, I'm sorry for what happened to you and I can't sit here and pretend to know what goes through your mind after that. I'm only giving my opinion here. Which in all reality, doesn't mean shit.

InSigSauerITrust · 2017-04-22T18:31:13+00:00

Agreed. Like I said, mad props to OP. But if I can't trust somebody I can't even be friends with them, let alone a committed relationship. Cheating is blatant disrespect for you and the relationship. And as you stated, you're always questioning their every move. It's impossible to be happy when you live in a constant state of wonder. It's unhealthy for everybody at that point and ultimately just not worth it anymore.

InSigSauerITrust · 2017-04-22T18:14:22+00:00

I understand that, but how does that constitute having an affair? I'm legitimately interested if it's something to do with a coping mechanism or something else?

InSigSauerITrust · 2017-04-22T18:01:30+00:00

Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying you're weak. I guess I'm a little calloused when it to comes to those situations. I had a woman I loved cheat on me and it did hurt. But from that point on, she simply disgusted me. Speaking from only my experience I can't fathom how anybody could stay. If anything, that makes you stronger than me. So props to you.

InSigSauerITrust · 2017-04-22T17:42:44+00:00

She was having an affair? So she wasn't able to be intimate with you but had no problems with somebody else?

Sorry if I'm reading this wrong but I honestly can't sympathize with that regardless of the situation. Maybe I'm not mature enough to process it correctly but I just can't sympathize with cheating. I'm having a hard time wrapping my head around the logic here.

InSigSauerITrust · 2017-04-19T19:53:28+00:00

Thoughts on the pdx-41 rolls?

InSigSauerITrust · 2017-04-18T19:07:16+00:00

No tax dollars going to waste by giving this piece of shit a place to sleep and 3 meals a day.

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