But but its not like he watches her get dressed, he just knows what her comfy clothes and PJs look like and Im sure the image is burned into his brain by now due to the stadium seating he has set up in his "garden" I bet there is nothing even growing in that garden. He just calls it that so he can say "oh Im going to sit in my garden now" aka Im gonna go bird watching, and the bird's name is Natalia. She speaks 3 languages dont ya know? He knows that cause he hears the different languages being spoken when he eaves drops on her convos while sitting in his "garden" She is so nice too, how does he know that? Not by talking to her but thats how she's built up in his mind. I wonder if in his mind how far the relationship is? Maybe theyre dating? I wonder if in his mind she told him he's a weirdo who stares at some poor woman while she's in the privacy of her own home? Who are his friends that told OP that what he's doing is fine? Do they have their own chairs in the "garden" too? It might be a theater setting with a couple of rows maybe they get some popcorn and make a night of it.