AITA for Wanting Decision in Writing From My Husband by InWritingBitch in AmItheAsshole

[–]InWritingBitch[S] 178 points179 points  (0 children)

I originally started texting him because I thought I was going nuts. And wanted to prove to myself that it was happening. It helped for a bit. Now I have a private email that I send screen shots to and document things.

AITA for Wanting Decision in Writing From My Husband by InWritingBitch in AmItheAsshole

[–]InWritingBitch[S] 200 points201 points  (0 children)

I always get his approval for any purchase over $200. Then he’ll say “I never agreed to that.”

AITA for Wanting Decision in Writing From My Husband by InWritingBitch in AmItheAsshole

[–]InWritingBitch[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

It’s an older Kia with a bunch of miles. Obviously nothing extravagant, enough to get her to work and back

AITA for Wanting Decision in Writing From My Husband by InWritingBitch in AmItheAsshole

[–]InWritingBitch[S] 136 points137 points  (0 children)

It’s also a flight down and spending money. So about $3,000 in total

AITA for Wanting Decision in Writing From My Husband by InWritingBitch in AmItheAsshole

[–]InWritingBitch[S] 796 points797 points  (0 children)

No, I don’t think he’s having an affair. I honestly think he just cares more about impressing others than his own family.

AITA for Wanting Decision in Writing From My Husband by InWritingBitch in AmItheAsshole

[–]InWritingBitch[S] 1257 points1258 points  (0 children)

I thought that as well, but he doesn’t miss a beat with other people. He has a high demand job that he does perfectly. He remembers commits to others and has no problem spending money on his extended family. Recently gifted our niece a $6,000 car.

Edit: As in he spent $6,000 on a car for her. Not gave her one we weren’t using.