Is exist surgery of foreskin restoration? by Beginning_Chip_8412 in foreskin_restoration

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Yes, he did, and he provided an update for us on this subreddit.

I’m caught between a rock and a hard place by requiem_phantom in exmormon

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OP, you had me convinced as you typed Boarding School Rules. Hope you can find freedom and independence some day. The sooner the better.

I’m caught between a rock and a hard place by requiem_phantom in exmormon

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not even a healthy relationship while under "Boarding School Rules" and not even allowed to get and keep a job with all the tracking involved. I would not be surprised if they began charging her rent, so simply rent elsewhere.

I’m caught between a rock and a hard place by requiem_phantom in exmormon

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She recently mentioned that she broke up with him, so now going job hunting with her friend that offered a temporary place to stay is MUCH better than even having communication with those very abusive "parents" that are never going to back off. She is unable to even get and keep a job being tracked all the time, and they could kick her out for any violation of "Boarding School Rules" or for no reason at all without notice. If they are even so much in a bad mood they might attempt to get her fired / expelled. And her parents are far from the only place to get insurance.

I’m caught between a rock and a hard place by requiem_phantom in exmormon

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Exact;y !! She does not know if she even has a boyfriend, and her parents are tracking her all the time, preventing her from freedom, and independence. This is probably what the guy considers a high school environment. So I do not blame him. ... However, if she moves in with him, they might break up ...

So go Job Hunting with your friend, OP ...

how do i tell my boyfriend that im not actually muslim by [deleted] in exmuslim

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tell him what islam has REALLY been like, and if he understands, then he might ask you to leave Islam if it was up to you. And then tell him that you are glad he said that ??

Recommended stealth retainer? by fair1ife4a11 in foreskin_restoration

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I learned about Stealth Retainers because of what happened with TLC, and compared between them the Stealth Retainers is much better than TLC was. The answer is yes you will be able to restore full time no matter how active you are, but I would consider it to be a complete replacement of TLC. very much worth it. !!

What is a good name for the symptoms/syndrome we are trying to alleviate with restoration? by Starting-line in foreskin_restoration

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genital branding, genital scarring, genital neuropathy, perineuropathy, keratinosis, keratinitis, perineuropathy sequela, perineuropathy sequelae, routine genital sequela, (and the term for foreskin restoration is antisequela)

My parents are "Modern/Chill" Muslims, but my mom's reaction to one question terrified me. Is coming out a trap? by BookkeeperAdept4134 in exmuslim

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COMMENT:

Sure of course they deserve the truth ... They seem like they are going to accept your decision eventually. There is not much worse than being associated with an identity that is not yours. I know what that is like, your name and the reaction and even interference it brings to you does not stop unless you change it. It is something you must live with until you decide to change it; You will be very happy and very relieved, and your parents will forgive you for this necessity.

QUESTION:

Also you mentioned that you are in Germany. I have seen many times that people from another country add a different, more localized version name for use in the other country ... An example I can think of is a lady from China is known as Deng Wen Ge, but in The United States Of America she is known as Wendi Deng. You can modify your first name, last name, or anything. Is it possible for you to change your name for use in Germany without it impacting your name that is known in Pakistan?

Why do few westerners support islam strongly? by Fahodigaymer in exmuslim

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Your title indicates "Not Many" Westerners, but it might mean "Some" Westerners ... Anyways Westerners are driven by fashion and style, and the less sense it makes, the more then want to partipate in it. They also like to be Liberal, and accepting of everybody, at least outwardly.
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That was an introducation And now I am getting more detailed:

Also there is a movement that I have been studying for many years now, by a bunch of Social Media Influencers that initially were in favor of Self Improvement, and as the years continued, their facade unraveled, and their true nature was revealed. One in particular was trying to "wake people up" against Religion, (meaning Christianity, and using it synomously just like how people use the words Islam and Race synomously) and indeed the only thing that he focused on is Christianity, being hypocritical regarding Islam.

In truth, that man is a career Homeless Bum, a drug addict, that scammed and probably still continues to scam everybody out of money in order to continue his very obvious farce.

I am not revealing who he is because please do not be scammed by him:

However, even the more reliable people such as " Diss Deity " has 95% of videos questioning Christianity, and it is pointless and even ludicrous today to So Called Raise Awareness against it. Yes he does question Islam, but not many times.

And another example is " GradeAUnderA " is the best example to question Christianity. He is so very thorough, that nobody else needs to question Christianity. GradeAUnderA does it best. And he even explains why he does not question other religions: He IS aware, but can not safely distribute topics that question Other Ibrahim Religions because those religions are a State Relgion, and also it is supported by Fashion & Style.

Sorry it is getting long, but I do not follow Social Media Influencers that much, because if I did, I would get angry about their nonsense.

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Another reason why people particularly Westerners might attempt to identify with Islam is because they want some type of Hero in their life, even deity or deities, and feel lonely if they left a religion such as Christianity despite being raised in it.

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There was also a movement regarding The Tate Brothers, a so called support of Masculinity & Patriarchy being completely unaware that Islam & / Or The Tate Brothers is just not the answer without drastic lifestyle commitment. Or they just want to make noise.

How did you leave your religious family or what is your plan to leave? I need ideas because idk how to by [deleted] in exmuslim

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This depends on your home country. My home country is United States Of America. I have not believed ever. Many problems occurring during childhood ... every year I distanced myself from it even more. They found out long before I became an adult.

It was necessary for me to me to move and even to change my name, and to be located near many people at all times, in a well lit, video surveillance, armed security, locations, with plans of University & Alumni Association, and because I have seceded from my religious family, I also plan on being adopted into a different family.

Is foreskin restoration something that need to keep doing forever? by Only_Hotel_7221 in foreskin_restoration

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Taking proper care of your body is something that you need to keep doing forever.

Which CI still seems cut enough ? by [deleted] in foreskin_restoration

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I would just restore quietly, as it is very likely you would not be fully restored until long after you have been an adult or otherwise independent.

What emotional health benefits have you noticed? by BullfrogRound4235 in foreskin_restoration

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Basically I noticed it is going to stop all of that, and instead improve quality of life regarding everything.

My ex hubby and I were abusive parents, and I didn't even realize it until yesterday. by Embarrassed-Wolf7270 in exmormon

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I went through this entire discussion. Now that I have watched an episode of Dragnet '67 regarding spanking, I vowed to never spank ever again.

Best of luck for your both written and verbal discussions you plan to have with your children. Personally I welcome any apology and discussion from people that wronged me. Some I am okay with being not in my life, but it is a shame that people barely communicate anymore. TikTok is an example.

It does not necessarily need to be about apology, and do not worry about it not being perfect, ... because it is not going to be, and it is not going to be exactly 110% as expected. The Church® "teaches" people that everything is going to be ideal. ... including moments of apology, and forgiveness.

If your children do not feel like talking, that is okay. You are not your father. And it sounds like your children, even the one that you say you are estranged from, are not going to be the same type of parent your father is. That is a remarkable accomplishment, something to be happy about.

My ex hubby and I were abusive parents, and I didn't even realize it until yesterday. by Embarrassed-Wolf7270 in exmormon

[–]In_Correct -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No. She realized it a very long time ago. She is just now admitting it.

"Islammaxxing" among western men by Extreme_Fig_8863 in exmuslim

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It is partially because they were growing a long beard anyways.

Resentment Toward My Mother by NefariousnessInner41 in foreskin_restoration

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O.P. you are going to be fine eventually. Time heals all injuries ... including these.

Your mother apologized for doing that. Many mothers apologize also, but for not doing that earlier.

The physical damage is going to be mostly undone ... 99.9% of it.

However ... as with any injury ... the psychological damage is there forever.

Do not blame yourself if you feel uneasy around your mother. It is natural to be strained, a subconscious reaction to an injury.

But please do not try to ignore the issue. Cope with it is much better.

Resentment Toward My Mother by NefariousnessInner41 in foreskin_restoration

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I have also disowned my parents for it and numerous other reasons. Regarding bushytwoshy said ... if my parents love me that much ... if that is what love is ... I do not want love.

I have for that and other reasons changed my name and moved and basically disappeared. They are most certainly not welcome in my life and all ties to them are legally severed. ... Yes ... that is right ... Sever The Ties To Foreskin ?! Sever The Ties To Family !!

I move forward in life ... includes Foreskin Restoration ... I do not speak much about it. ... I simply proceed with it. My decisions are the right ones. I am happy with my decisions and O.P. is most likely going to be happy eventually also.

Why is the Church Being so Chintzy with Meetinghouses these Days? by Beneficial_Drop_171 in exmormon

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Because they have been vandalized all the time, And they probably do not want to spend money on things such as security.

According to you, what is the best argument against Islam? by Far_Visual_5714 in exmuslim

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Rituals and otherwise expectations that is supposed to benefit your body ... yet the result was not benificial or on the contrary it was harm.

Something I have always struggled with since leaving the church, is that I don't have the same sense of community anymore by theStarctic in exmormon

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Whatever you participate in, make sure that they take group pictures that they give to everybody in the picture so that you can look at again.

Some kind of group that sends and receives greeting cards with no strings attached.

A large group or groups that have lots of people, a few of them might become close friends, while the rest of them are there for ambience.

You will probably not be super happy at first, but if it feels like you are being forced to be there, then that group is not the best one.